Tonight's the night... (Thanks, Rod Stewart!)

[devifemme]

As you regular readers are aware, I've been traveling the past month with my "signif. other" -- and, as you know, in recent years she has become totally "asexual," not wanting to fuck at all

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[howlin_wolf_66]

*hugs*. I hope you can deal with the frustration, somehow. You know your partner better than I do - but just because she doesn't want to be involved, doesn't necessarily mean that she would mind you taking care of things in her presence (although you yourself may not be comfortable with that.)

[anais_pf]

Yup. You could ASK her, anyway.

[eqfe]

Naughty girl, I think that she should keep you locked in chastity.

[devifemme]

Dear Wolfie, Anais and Bob

[devifemme]

Two points to add:
(1) it's now 24 hours later, having spent last night and parts of today overwhelmed by a nasty cold, so I apologize for the slipshod little post here.
(2) I did cum last night, pretty pleasantly, thanks!

[jasperslagoon]

I'm of course definitely late to the conversation, but I feel your pain on this and I hope it finds a balance where the both of your needs are met somewhere in the middle. It's not fair to you or to Joanne if one or the both of you find yourselves in a state of constant frustration.

[devifemme]

Thanks, Jasper. You could maybe be my lawyer -- were there an actual "court of public [or should that be "pubic"] opinion. And, goddess knows, it's complicated. (I'm not the easiest person to live with, needless to say.)

[jasperslagoon]

Heh and I'm not the easiest person to live with either. I wish you two well (actually I wish you MORE wellness since I only know you and little if any of Joanne).