This is what is wrong with pop music . All this focus on this one little narrow slice of love -- this boy meets girl love. It's not even just the boy/girl thing, it's this razor-thin boy-just-met-girl slice of the love spectrum. It's practically obsessive -- when you think about the many, many different forms that love takes. The whole boy-just-met-girl thing is not even the best of it. Pop music diminishes love and so does valentines day.