Firstly, lets examine the 3 possibilities that you have said may occur as a result of this posting and my response to them:
1) your going to resent me forever for speaking the truth in a open forum
Personally, I don't believe any of this needed to be aired on a public forum. If you want the world to read your private business then thats fine but its really not necessary and a bit attention seeking in my opinion. I would've sent this via email but I also don't like my character being brought into question when I am not given the opportunity to defend myself, hence the reason I am stooping to your level and responding. Although, you know we could've just sat down with a nice cup or tea and maybe some biscuits and discussed this, but if this is how you would like to handle this then so be it.
2) ignore this message of truth
Well you see, its not exactly truthful what you're saying but I will address that later on in this post if you bear with me.
3) I push you further away.Can't get much further away really so that last
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1) you cant say you dont have an opportunity to defend yourself, because look here you have. You made it quiet clear in our little MSN chat that you would never have sat down and had a cuppa-tea or a nice biscuit with me.
2) as you said and i am about to say ill address that later.
3) the whole friends thing, i am not going partake in answering that, yes i realise how this may look, but the only person i have mention by name was bretts.
Yes, you arent entirely sure of what i am referring to, as i pointed out i was being very vague. However, your comment "Brett dry financially and taking advantage of his kindness and generosity by not working and making him pay for everything (wow, talk about history repeating! Didn't that happen to him before?)" is not what i am referring, i was unware that he may of been supporting you, but oddly it doesnt surprise me. Thou in my defence of that comment, you should enquire as to how much fianical support i have provided brett first, how much he " sucked" from, the debt he left me with.
Now as far as you "biting" to what I was saying, I do believe that you were the one who insulted me first and thus I had every right to defend myself. So stop acting so high and mighty and insinuating it was I who attacked you as that was certainly not the case. I do have the logs of that conversation if you would like me to refresh your memory. And yes, Brett has read it
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biting yes i did, and infact you had started this one, i admitted i prolonged it but you infact started, as i pointed earlier you are not the only one with msn logs if you care to re-read. you came at me for saying hello to brett and you came sticking your nose in where it didnt belong.
Your correct, i havent seen you in 5yrs, however that lovely little convo showed me a lot of insight, but also keep mind i have heard this from many other sources.
I think you really need to ask brett, what he thought, or should i re-word that what he use to say about you in regards of what you did to alan.
I appoligise for being incorrect on that if that is truly the case here. Belive me when i say it. However, circumstances suggest otherwise.
there was only one time in our relationship where i lied and cheated on him, but ask him the circumstances.
ask him about the violence, as him about the times he cheated on me.
Now I've checked with Brett on the whole controlling thing and he doesn't seem to think that I'm a controlling person (I swear, that Mind Control chip was the best idea I have ever had, its amazing the things you can do with a Funway system from Dick Smith!), but maybe you know something that we don't (highly unlikely). Of course I don't allow him to do certain things, but I'm hardly brandishing a whip whilst giving these orders. Would you like to know the changes that I have made since we have been together?
* Ensuring that he has 3 healthy, nourishing meals per day * Supporting him in giving up smoking * Encouraging him to take better care of himself so he feels better from within * Giving him a frontal lobotomy I mean, stopping him from seeing all his friends oops, no I really meant to say teaching him to love and respect himself and understand that he is a wonderful person and does not deserve all the crap he has been put through (Phew! That was close
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If you are truly, doing what you say then i am glad, i dont know how i can get across to you i am not interested in him. I belive we can remain friends but thats it. If he has not laid his fists into you because he is in a bad mood, and if he has not treated you like shit, then i am glad, and it means all my information and what i have seen is incorrect
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there is some wisdom in what your saying. I belive i also i understand what your saying, however, when your only option is to say something electrionally, you have to take it.
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Firstly, lets examine the 3 possibilities that you have said may occur as a result of this posting and my response to them:
1) your going to resent me forever for speaking the truth in a open forum
Personally, I don't believe any of this needed to be aired on a public forum. If you want the world to read your private business then thats fine but its really not necessary and a bit attention seeking in my opinion. I would've sent this via email but I also don't like my character being brought into question when I am not given the opportunity to defend myself, hence the reason I am stooping to your level and responding. Although, you know we could've just sat down with a nice cup or tea and maybe some biscuits and discussed this, but if this is how you would like to handle this then so be it.
2) ignore this message of truth
Well you see, its not exactly truthful what you're saying but I will address that later on in this post if you bear with me.
3) I push you further away.Can't get much further away really so that last ( ... )
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2) as you said and i am about to say ill address that later.
3) the whole friends thing, i am not going partake in answering that, yes i realise how this may look, but the only person i have mention by name was bretts.
Yes, you arent entirely sure of what i am referring to, as i pointed out i was being very vague. However, your comment "Brett dry financially and taking advantage of his kindness and generosity by not working and making him pay for everything (wow, talk about history repeating! Didn't that happen to him before?)" is not what i am referring, i was unware that he may of been supporting you, but oddly it doesnt surprise me. Thou in my defence of that comment, you should enquire as to how much fianical support i have provided brett first, how much he " sucked" from, the debt he left me with.
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Your correct, i havent seen you in 5yrs, however that lovely little convo showed me a lot of insight, but also keep mind i have heard this from many other sources.
I think you really need to ask brett, what he thought, or should i re-word that what he use to say about you in regards of what you did to alan.
I appoligise for being incorrect on that if that is truly the case here. Belive me when i say it. However, circumstances suggest otherwise.
there was only one time in our relationship where i lied and cheated on him, but ask him the circumstances.
ask him about the violence, as him about the times he cheated on me.
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* Ensuring that he has 3 healthy, nourishing meals per day
* Supporting him in giving up smoking
* Encouraging him to take better care of himself so he feels better from within
* Giving him a frontal lobotomy I mean, stopping him from seeing all his friends oops, no I really meant to say teaching him to love and respect himself and understand that he is a wonderful person and does not deserve all the crap he has been put through (Phew! That was close ( ... )
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