Firstly, lets examine the 3 possibilities that you have said may occur as a result of this posting and my response to them:
1) your going to resent me forever for speaking the truth in a open forum
Personally, I don't believe any of this needed to be aired on a public forum. If you want the world to read your private business then thats fine but its really not necessary and a bit attention seeking in my opinion. I would've sent this via email but I also don't like my character being brought into question when I am not given the opportunity to defend myself, hence the reason I am stooping to your level and responding. Although, you know we could've just sat down with a nice cup or tea and maybe some biscuits and discussed this, but if this is how you would like to handle this then so be it.
2) ignore this message of truth
Well you see, its not exactly truthful what you're saying but I will address that later on in this post if you bear with me.
3) I push you further away.
Can't get much further away really so that last point was a bit unnecessary I think!
Now, who are these friends that have been looking out for Brett? I can count on one hand (okay, maybe 1 1/2) the amount of times we have had contact with his friends since I have moved over here. I have never stopped him from seeing his friends, nor would I ever try to do that. I'm not aware of any concerns being raised by his friends in regards to his relationship with me aside from when I first moved over here but as far as I was aware we had sorted out those misunderstandings.
Although... I admit that I'm not aware of who he speaks to during the day so other conversations could've taken place but with the invention of my new Mind-Control Chip (patent pending) I'm hoping to iron out these little problems (such as free will) that we're dealing with.
I'm not entirely sure what you're referring to when you say that Brett is "heading down that track again in a worse way" but I'll hazard a guess that you're referring to the fact that you believe that I am sucking Brett dry financially and taking advantage of his kindness and generosity by not working and making him pay for everything (wow, talk about history repeating! Didn't that happen to him before?). If that is the case, it is none of your business. I can assure you that that is not the situation at all if it is something that truly worries you.
1) you cant say you dont have an opportunity to defend yourself, because look here you have. You made it quiet clear in our little MSN chat that you would never have sat down and had a cuppa-tea or a nice biscuit with me.
2) as you said and i am about to say ill address that later.
3) the whole friends thing, i am not going partake in answering that, yes i realise how this may look, but the only person i have mention by name was bretts.
Yes, you arent entirely sure of what i am referring to, as i pointed out i was being very vague. However, your comment "Brett dry financially and taking advantage of his kindness and generosity by not working and making him pay for everything (wow, talk about history repeating! Didn't that happen to him before?)" is not what i am referring, i was unware that he may of been supporting you, but oddly it doesnt surprise me. Thou in my defence of that comment, you should enquire as to how much fianical support i have provided brett first, how much he " sucked" from, the debt he left me with.
Firstly, lets examine the 3 possibilities that you have said may occur as a result of this posting and my response to them:
1) your going to resent me forever for speaking the truth in a open forum
Personally, I don't believe any of this needed to be aired on a public forum. If you want the world to read your private business then thats fine but its really not necessary and a bit attention seeking in my opinion. I would've sent this via email but I also don't like my character being brought into question when I am not given the opportunity to defend myself, hence the reason I am stooping to your level and responding. Although, you know we could've just sat down with a nice cup or tea and maybe some biscuits and discussed this, but if this is how you would like to handle this then so be it.
2) ignore this message of truth
Well you see, its not exactly truthful what you're saying but I will address that later on in this post if you bear with me.
3) I push you further away.
Can't get much further away really so that last point was a bit unnecessary I think!
Now, who are these friends that have been looking out for Brett? I can count on one hand (okay, maybe 1 1/2) the amount of times we have had contact with his friends since I have moved over here. I have never stopped him from seeing his friends, nor would I ever try to do that. I'm not aware of any concerns being raised by his friends in regards to his relationship with me aside from when I first moved over here but as far as I was aware we had sorted out those misunderstandings.
Although... I admit that I'm not aware of who he speaks to during the day so other conversations could've taken place but with the invention of my new Mind-Control Chip (patent pending) I'm hoping to iron out these little problems (such as free will) that we're dealing with.
I'm not entirely sure what you're referring to when you say that Brett is "heading down that track again in a worse way" but I'll hazard a guess that you're referring to the fact that you believe that I am sucking Brett dry financially and taking advantage of his kindness and generosity by not working and making him pay for everything (wow, talk about history repeating! Didn't that happen to him before?). If that is the case, it is none of your business. I can assure you that that is not the situation at all if it is something that truly worries you.
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2) as you said and i am about to say ill address that later.
3) the whole friends thing, i am not going partake in answering that, yes i realise how this may look, but the only person i have mention by name was bretts.
Yes, you arent entirely sure of what i am referring to, as i pointed out i was being very vague. However, your comment "Brett dry financially and taking advantage of his kindness and generosity by not working and making him pay for everything (wow, talk about history repeating! Didn't that happen to him before?)" is not what i am referring, i was unware that he may of been supporting you, but oddly it doesnt surprise me. Thou in my defence of that comment, you should enquire as to how much fianical support i have provided brett first, how much he " sucked" from, the debt he left me with.
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