Vacations
My boyfriend and I have been currently dating almost 3 months. We've been through a bunch of stuff already and despite it all we're really happy together.
We're both working full-time this summer and we don't get to see each other much. We are going to need a vacation, so we had planned to go white water kayaking & camping but that fell through. We decided to just go camping instead, but the 2 couples we were going to go with cancelled. He asked a 3rd couple but we won't hear whether they can go until Saturday or next week.
My mom also lives in the US (Georgia, to be specific) and we're in Canada. I asked him if he would consider flying down with me because my mom and step dad are most likely moving to another state in a few months and this will be my last time to visit Georgia for a long time.
When I proposed the idea, all he would say is "it just doesn't feel right." I kept saying how we'd have a blast and it would only be weird for like, the first day and he still said he didn't know and it wouldn't feel right and it's not the right time.
I was really disappointed he wouldn't even consider it or think about going. I mean, I understand where he's coming from, but it sounded like such a cop-out answer. He has met my mom and we would be staying in seperate rooms. Plus my mom asked if BOTH of us could come down. He said I could go alone but I'd LOVE for him to go with me.
So, my question is: Why is he acting like this? Is there any way I can convince him to go with me without being overbearing? I know when he says no, it means no, but I did change his mind about something else a last weekend....