Porn is ridiculously boring. The porn I'm privy to shows 3 or 4 positions and while they get the job done, I'm so bored watching the same stuff in the course of 2 hours. Blah. BUT, the storylines? Hilarity. I also enjoy watching porn in different languages so I can make up my own dialogue. Shame...hahaha
I am the EXACT opposite. It's all I want to do. Grah. I require the physical presence of another though...which, in my current sitch, is unfortunate :(
You'll find your drive again. Or...find a happy medium. :)
It's not my drive. It's just, after my whole life being driven so much by sex and sexuality, I find myself at a bit of a halt, and I don't so much mind it, for a change. I'm getting to know other parts of myself.
I know what you mean. What I have found though is to think about something that you couldn't possibly imagine yourself doing sexually. I mean, I'm sure you've pushed limits but there are always ones that you will reserve and not cross. It could be anything, people, place, things, situations, etc. just something that you could never ever imagine you being a part or something you will never have a shot at. The thrill level of obtaining it through fantasy seems to stimulate. Try it!
Actually, yeah, I've found myself having to resort to this kind of thing lately... once I got over the weird feelings and guilt (even though I know that it's ridiculous to feel guilty over something that is just "fantasy" because I know it doesn't necessarily have any bearing over what I desire in my real sex life... blablabla), it's actually pretty exciting! :)
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I am the EXACT opposite. It's all I want to do. Grah. I require the physical presence of another though...which, in my current sitch, is unfortunate :(
You'll find your drive again. Or...find a happy medium. :)
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i had a sex dream about you. about a week ago.
i was going to tell you about it (because i'm incredibly creepy) but i kept forgetting to write you, and this is what reminded me. haha.
i've been without sex for too long. it's all i think about. sexy is sexier when it's not accessible. it's a fact =/
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Clearly I want to know details. I hope it was steamy.
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BUT.. i didn't really reread it after typing it all out because i kind of thought i wouldn't send it if i DID read over it again.
so forgive the many typos that i'm now seeing i made =/
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