I'm not sure if it's more funny or sad that I predicted with relative certainty that my latest piece for GayWired would be the next one to hit one of the Top Five lists that you know I love. Sure enough, it appears gay readers DO consume sleazy tabloid stories involving Olympic swimmers, strippers and threesomes (oh my!). Who knew?

Oh, that's right ( Read more... )

Let's see how this works...
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Put an X in the bracket next to a place you've had sex.

(  ) In your parent's bed?
(X) On the beach?
(X) In your bed?
(   ) With your parents home?
(X) In a car?
(   ) With the opposite sex?
(  ) In any of your sibling's beds?
(X) In public?
(X) In a friend's bed?
(X) With someone you just met?
(   ) At a party with ( Read more... )

I had a super surprising and fun evening last night, starting with Ashley coming over for dinner and a huge bottle of wine with her and Katie, then playing sort of a primer of Katie's new game BuzzWord while increasingly wine-filled). Conversation was so bluntly graphically sexual at times, a consequence of our guest's own openness in such matters ( Read more... )

Since I just finished my op-ed and Katie already went shopping so I don't particularly need to hurry home (it's hot out there) to clean for the next twenty-four hours, I figured I'd write a bit about the interesting and bizarre week that was, well, this week.
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Monday Justin and Yasmin and I went to Fred 62s for dinner, where I proceeded to talk ( Read more... )

Two years ago I would never have thought about writing an entry like this, which I suppose goes to show how much two years, two continents and a debilitating disease and traumatic surgery can change one's mind about a major topic like sex.
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In the past, I looked on sex somewhat like Madonna does: express yourself, don't repress yourself, erotic, ( Read more... )

Shannon or Andrew should get that title, other than that I think it'd be a stumper. But it does have to do with what I am doing tomorrow, which is going to Gisnepland with Jeffrey. Andrew is going to get us in, and join us for Fantasmic! and hopefully Splash and/or Indy before I go and spend the noche on his couch and then we go home this weekend ( Read more... )

Now this I gotta see!
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I broke an almost 18 month dry spell today, and got with it unusual feelings of guilt or at least unfulfilledness. If that is even a word. It was fun though.

It's so much easier to be alone. Is it because I'm out of practice being with someone else? Can I no longer please a man? Am I just nervous? Are there unresolved issues? If so are they just physical or are they mental too? When can I be comfortable being physically intimate with someone again? Is sobriety a prerequisite? Is this going to be just ( Read more... )

I did say no New Year's Resolutions. I've already broken that resolution ( Read more... )

On the whole it's been a good couple of weeks, but today's not the best of the calendar year, for sure. In fact this whole weekend has been sort of a bummer. I worked Thursday and Friday and was going to do some extra hours Saturday for more money. Unfortunately Saturday I wasn't feeling well at all and I didn't get any hours in. Compounding that ( Read more... )