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[cyberchristchao]

Currently on break with my relationship from Milleh. Thought it was going to be a simple week or possibly two off and waiting for things to get easier in my life and eventually find a solution once things settle down but things keep getting more and more complex and I'm still questioning how on earth I can find a good solution between me and

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[shadowhardt]

thats a shame, but it's realistic i'm afraid. Like I said to Milleh, I had a relationship that was heavily damaged by uni (I should add, my ex's life would just shut down with uni, he'd never do anything or work, just study and attend class) but it's very hard when one person is full time at uni, and the other isn't. That's just a fact no matter who you are. On the one hand you're always on the go and busy; which is fair enough, whereas Milleh has less to do; which is also fair enough, it's just very hard to find that balance between the two

[cyberchristchao]

Thanks for your advice, as I said in our talk, you're definitely the one who has thought about this in the most logical sense overall.

I'm not taking it too harshly, I'm not really ending or making any rash decisions about what's happened, I've got my entire life to focus on for now and then get back to Milleh when I know things can be sorted out will definitely not end in fighting.

I doubt Milleh will be offended, we've both got an idea of each other's situation but at the moment, it's just too hard for us to co-exist at the moment.......