I hate when people do that. As much as it sucks, he shouldn't be the top priority in your life. Your boyfriend is not going to keep you off the streets, put clothes on your back, food on your table, and whatever else. Gaining ground in your life is always more important.
*huggles* Sorry, doll. I hope he stops being an idiot.
I know he said that on msn, but I'm taking that as he's walking out on me. Trust me, if you only knew his attitude and his anger, you'd understand. He likes to raise his voice when it shouldn't be.
After that comment, it seems like he wants me to move on. If that's what he wants, that's what he gets. I've worked too damn long and too damn hard not to make my career number one for now. He just doesn't get it.
I'm in agreement with the above comment. You should be your top priority. And a job helps you live, so there you go.
Not only that but he needs to realize that his expectations work both ways. How can he expect you to have him on the top of your list of priorities, when he said himself that you aren't on the top of his.
YES!! Exactly. I'm not top in his life, so why should he?
He also made a comment too about my mother:
"you're rude, must have gotten that from your mother"
Ok HELLO. You just crossed the line there. I don't care if this was done on MSN. Actually i'm glad it was, because if I do decide to speak with him, I have saved the conversation and if he tries to say to me he didn't say it, i'll have proof!
Yeah, why bring someone else into the arguement, especially your mother. Again with the hypocrisy. He calls you rude, yet in the same sentence he was EXTREMELY rude!
Any idiot can be a good boyfriend for a couple of days though, but you've been lovey-dovey over this guy for a long time now. Shouldn't he be allowed to "say the wrong thing" now and then?
With my track record I shouldn't be giving advice to anyone, but if there's one thing that I believe about relationships it's that people can only hurt you as much as you let them.
Don't let him occupy that position in your life if you don't like the job he's doing. Or (more likely) don't spazz out about it and this will blow over in no time flat.
Plus you should notice that he was mad at you. Your response was basically to point out what a fool he was for being mad. If you're expecting him to be perfect you should consider what upset him in the first place. I believe black people refer to that as "check yourself before you wreck yourself." Or just "checkognize" for short.
So maybe you need to checkognize. That'll be five dollars for the advice by the way. But it's cool, you can just owe me.
I understand ur point. And I know why he was mad. It's not just this "one" time he's said the wrong thing. He has said wrong things quite often. Amongst a few other things that has happened in the past. I know in my "rant" I didn't explain everything, but I didn't want to go into too much detail what has happened in the past with him and I.
I've made many mistakes in the past with previous boyfriends. Always taking them back when I shouldn't have. I'm not going to make those kind of mistakes again.
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As much as it sucks, he shouldn't be the top priority in your life.
Your boyfriend is not going to keep you off the streets, put clothes on your back, food on your table, and whatever else.
Gaining ground in your life is always more important.
*huggles*
Sorry, doll.
I hope he stops being an idiot.
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Not only that but he needs to realize that his expectations work both ways. How can he expect you to have him on the top of your list of priorities, when he said himself that you aren't on the top of his.
Talk about hypocrisy.
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He also made a comment too about my mother:
"you're rude, must have gotten that from your mother"
Ok HELLO. You just crossed the line there. I don't care if this was done on MSN. Actually i'm glad it was, because if I do decide to speak with him, I have saved the conversation and if he tries to say to me he didn't say it, i'll have proof!
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People get pissy and say dumb crap all the time, especially on msn.
Plus you don't want ME after you again, do you?
Lol, if that doesn't win him a second chance, nothing will.
Cheers big ears.
P.S *come to the thing on the 26th*
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Any idiot can be a good boyfriend for a couple of days though,
but you've been lovey-dovey over this guy for a long time now.
Shouldn't he be allowed to "say the wrong thing" now and then?
With my track record I shouldn't be giving advice to anyone,
but if there's one thing that I believe about relationships
it's that people can only hurt you as much as you let them.
Don't let him occupy that position in your life if you don't like the job he's doing.
Or (more likely) don't spazz out about it and this will blow over in no time flat.
Plus you should notice that he was mad at you.
Your response was basically to point out what a fool he was for being mad.
If you're expecting him to be perfect you should consider what upset him in the first place.
I believe black people refer to that as "check yourself before you wreck yourself."
Or just "checkognize" for short.
So maybe you need to checkognize.
That'll be five dollars for the advice by the way.
But it's cool, you can just owe me.
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I've made many mistakes in the past with previous boyfriends. Always taking them back when I shouldn't have. I'm not going to make those kind of mistakes again.
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