Men......
(name taken out) says:
no, because i consider u 1 of my priorities, and if ur fuckign job is more important then i, then leave me alone, i dont give a shit
Now tell me what is wrong with that statement. Is that right for a boyfriend to say to his girlfriend?
I just started a new career with transit. I'm like day 4 into it. I just had a talk with him last night about it. I told him how important it is to me. He said he understood when I told him my career is top priority. Or actually he said "I already knew that". So to me I took that as he understood and hes ok.
Fast forward to today. Had a great day at work, came home, relaxed, worked on some homework. He then calls before 9pm. I was just heading to bed. And yes I was a little short with him on the phone, but I was busy finishing up my stuff and heading to bed. He said he just wanted to say hi which was fine. I said hi back, and then the conversation ended because I was tired and wasn't in the mood to talk. He then text me, saying I was being rude. I told him he caught me at a bad time.
Then he popped on msn. I told him I can't be available to talk to every time he calls and he told me that I have to. I'm not going to get into too much more detail about what we talked about after that. But then the above msg from him showed up. I couldn't believe my eyes what I was reading.
I said to him that I'm not his top priority and he basically admitted i'm not. So why is it bad if he's not top priority? He told me I'm "a" priority in his life. Not top priority. I can accept that. We're not married or anything. But no, because he's not top in my life, it's wrong and to hell with me.
He's walking out on me. So that just shows me what he really thinks, and this so called "love" he feels for me isn't what it should be.
no, because i consider u 1 of my priorities, and if ur fuckign job is more important then i, then leave me alone, i dont give a shit
Now tell me what is wrong with that statement. Is that right for a boyfriend to say to his girlfriend?
I just started a new career with transit. I'm like day 4 into it. I just had a talk with him last night about it. I told him how important it is to me. He said he understood when I told him my career is top priority. Or actually he said "I already knew that". So to me I took that as he understood and hes ok.
Fast forward to today. Had a great day at work, came home, relaxed, worked on some homework. He then calls before 9pm. I was just heading to bed. And yes I was a little short with him on the phone, but I was busy finishing up my stuff and heading to bed. He said he just wanted to say hi which was fine. I said hi back, and then the conversation ended because I was tired and wasn't in the mood to talk. He then text me, saying I was being rude. I told him he caught me at a bad time.
Then he popped on msn. I told him I can't be available to talk to every time he calls and he told me that I have to. I'm not going to get into too much more detail about what we talked about after that. But then the above msg from him showed up. I couldn't believe my eyes what I was reading.
I said to him that I'm not his top priority and he basically admitted i'm not. So why is it bad if he's not top priority? He told me I'm "a" priority in his life. Not top priority. I can accept that. We're not married or anything. But no, because he's not top in my life, it's wrong and to hell with me.
He's walking out on me. So that just shows me what he really thinks, and this so called "love" he feels for me isn't what it should be.