Kink Meme 5 B - 'Vanilla' Safe Space
This is the portion of the kink meme that aims to be a safe space for kinky people who like foodsex or foot fetish or like sexual stuff outside of the 'norm', or heck, just want to participate in a meme that that is all about instant porn, and yet, find the subject of violence and consent issues triggering.
I know there is a difference between actual violence and 'play' violence, but for the purpose of this safe space, please don't even have non-con fantasy roleplaying request in THIS post. Thank you.
If you want the Everything Goes Post, it's here: Kink Meme 5 A - Everything Goes, in which /Everything/ goes, from the stuff that is posted here in this Safe Space, to stuff that will NOT be in this space, I encourage vanilla prompters and repliers to post in BOTH posts, thank you.
Golden Rule of CM Kink Meme 5: That y'all be excellent to each other
- No matter how silly or squicky a kink is, for example...people who find not bathing sexually attractive? If it doesn't trigger anyone's traumatic memory of abuse, it's alright here.
- Character Bashing: if you are going to make character C into Ron the Death Eater as a side to A/B, please warn ahead of the fic so that C fans may skip it. Seeing as this is the Vanilla prompt, C being /character/ bashed by being Ron the Cheater is fine, but C being Ron the Wife Beater or C being Ron the Beaten / Jerkass Victim (of a violent crime) is NOT okay. No violence!
- If you have any issues or questions, see Questions and Discussion post
- Prompters and Seconders: Keep it Anonymous! Anon is preferably, signing it is okay if you are posting fics, please only sign in if you are posting a reply.
Formatting: I recommend that you list your pairings twice to ease search. There is a convention in some fandom, where instead of listing "A/B" to means that this pairing involves a and b, it lists AB and BA to indicate who is 'on top' during a sex scene. Some people don't care, some people do. If you don't, just list it as "A/B", if it's D/s, list it as AB or BA depending on who is 'on top' during the scene in question.
For ease of search, especially for the people getting this in their email, totally make your subject header informative (there is no particular order, just include pairing and kink (which could include who is on top):
"A/B, AB, pegging"
"A/B/C, ABC CBA, the answer to a shipwar is threesome!"
"A/B, BA, B feeds A ice cream from on top of A's desk"
"A/B, AB, A surprises B in the shower"
"A/B, AB, shower surprise"
"A/B, BA, h/c post break with C(bashing!)"
"A/B/C, AB, CB, h/c bondage, frottage, fingering, and double penetration - B has a long and stressful day and A and C takes care of him/her"
Fills post Vanilla Safe Space
...and finally, following ansera's fine tradition, here's a brief PublicServiceAnnoucement:
InRealLife: Please remember to practice Safe Sane Consensual etc etc Questions and Discussion post
...and if you missed Sexual Health or need more brush up, Go Ask Alice
Last Reminder: This is the Safe Space Post, no violence, no consent issues.
BBs, we have a new home:
Criminal Kink Meme VII
...our sandbox is now at Dreamwidth, because Subject Headings Subject Headings! Signing up for a DW account took me less than a minute, they just ask for a birthdate and email, you don't even need to give them a name.
7A - Everything Goes
from Non-Violent Safe Sane Consensual to Dangerous Insane Nonconsenual.
For members of our community who are trauma survivors and find violence and/or consent issues triggering, please consider the option of this: 7B - Safe Space
Imported to DW:
http://cm-kink.dreamwidth.org/2234.html
Please reply over there. Why?
1. LJ users can still track the meme through Open ID
2. With headings, your fills won't get lost admidst a barrage of Untitled Comments.
To the people wondering why they can't comment on this post:
Comments on the LJ entries have been frozen...
1. until I can figure out a way for it to autocrosspost to DW, I might have to do it manually (probably manually, because I'll have to add subject headings)...in respects to the fact that CM5 started on LJ, people who have been participating here will have the option to continue participating on LJ (but could you wait until...Jan 15th?)
2. to alert anons who don't reread a post before they reply that the meme has been imported to DW and what it means.
3. You could track a DW meme through Open ID if you are an LJ / InsaneJournal users, so since this is an anon-meme, there wouldn't be any difference except site layout: I have heard people disagree with the DW layout, if the DW layout is bothering please tell me, I think they have several options and I can tinker with it.
4. Links to fills are the reason why the LJ copy of this meme will still stay here, not deleted, and comments not disabled (because if you disable comments to a post, all existing comments become invisible). If me freezing comments still created problems for your system, please tell me.
ETA 5. Prompters/Authors tracking their threads...okay, when someone post a reply to the DW copy, imma gonna have to manually crosspost it to the LJ thread so that the prompter get their fills or the author get their reviews. Damnit LJ, why must you 'fix' what wasn't broken with the @#$%$^& subject headings!
You have two options:
gen question post:
http://cm-kink.livejournal.com/671.html
Signed In Comments Not Logged
Signed In Comments Not Screened
Anon Comments Logged
Anon Comments Not Screened
special IP free post:
http://gsyh.livejournal.com/563938.html
Signed In Comments Not Logged
Signed In Comments Not Screened
Anon Comments Not Logged
Anon Comments Screened
I know there is a difference between actual violence and 'play' violence, but for the purpose of this safe space, please don't even have non-con fantasy roleplaying request in THIS post. Thank you.
If you want the Everything Goes Post, it's here: Kink Meme 5 A - Everything Goes, in which /Everything/ goes, from the stuff that is posted here in this Safe Space, to stuff that will NOT be in this space, I encourage vanilla prompters and repliers to post in BOTH posts, thank you.
Golden Rule of CM Kink Meme 5: That y'all be excellent to each other
- No matter how silly or squicky a kink is, for example...people who find not bathing sexually attractive? If it doesn't trigger anyone's traumatic memory of abuse, it's alright here.
- Character Bashing: if you are going to make character C into Ron the Death Eater as a side to A/B, please warn ahead of the fic so that C fans may skip it. Seeing as this is the Vanilla prompt, C being /character/ bashed by being Ron the Cheater is fine, but C being Ron the Wife Beater or C being Ron the Beaten / Jerkass Victim (of a violent crime) is NOT okay. No violence!
- If you have any issues or questions, see Questions and Discussion post
- Prompters and Seconders: Keep it Anonymous! Anon is preferably, signing it is okay if you are posting fics, please only sign in if you are posting a reply.
Formatting: I recommend that you list your pairings twice to ease search. There is a convention in some fandom, where instead of listing "A/B" to means that this pairing involves a and b, it lists AB and BA to indicate who is 'on top' during a sex scene. Some people don't care, some people do. If you don't, just list it as "A/B", if it's D/s, list it as AB or BA depending on who is 'on top' during the scene in question.
For ease of search, especially for the people getting this in their email, totally make your subject header informative (there is no particular order, just include pairing and kink (which could include who is on top):
"A/B, AB, pegging"
"A/B/C, ABC CBA, the answer to a shipwar is threesome!"
"A/B, BA, B feeds A ice cream from on top of A's desk"
"A/B, AB, A surprises B in the shower"
"A/B, AB, shower surprise"
"A/B, BA, h/c post break with C(bashing!)"
"A/B/C, AB, CB, h/c bondage, frottage, fingering, and double penetration - B has a long and stressful day and A and C takes care of him/her"
Fills post Vanilla Safe Space
...and finally, following ansera's fine tradition, here's a brief PublicServiceAnnoucement:
InRealLife: Please remember to practice Safe Sane Consensual etc etc Questions and Discussion post
...and if you missed Sexual Health or need more brush up, Go Ask Alice
Last Reminder: This is the Safe Space Post, no violence, no consent issues.
BBs, we have a new home:
Criminal Kink Meme VII
...our sandbox is now at Dreamwidth, because Subject Headings Subject Headings! Signing up for a DW account took me less than a minute, they just ask for a birthdate and email, you don't even need to give them a name.
7A - Everything Goes
from Non-Violent Safe Sane Consensual to Dangerous Insane Nonconsenual.
For members of our community who are trauma survivors and find violence and/or consent issues triggering, please consider the option of this: 7B - Safe Space
Imported to DW:
http://cm-kink.dreamwidth.org/2234.html
Please reply over there. Why?
1. LJ users can still track the meme through Open ID
2. With headings, your fills won't get lost admidst a barrage of Untitled Comments.
To the people wondering why they can't comment on this post:
Comments on the LJ entries have been frozen...
1. until I can figure out a way for it to autocrosspost to DW, I might have to do it manually (probably manually, because I'll have to add subject headings)...in respects to the fact that CM5 started on LJ, people who have been participating here will have the option to continue participating on LJ (but could you wait until...Jan 15th?)
2. to alert anons who don't reread a post before they reply that the meme has been imported to DW and what it means.
3. You could track a DW meme through Open ID if you are an LJ / InsaneJournal users, so since this is an anon-meme, there wouldn't be any difference except site layout: I have heard people disagree with the DW layout, if the DW layout is bothering please tell me, I think they have several options and I can tinker with it.
4. Links to fills are the reason why the LJ copy of this meme will still stay here, not deleted, and comments not disabled (because if you disable comments to a post, all existing comments become invisible). If me freezing comments still created problems for your system, please tell me.
ETA 5. Prompters/Authors tracking their threads...okay, when someone post a reply to the DW copy, imma gonna have to manually crosspost it to the LJ thread so that the prompter get their fills or the author get their reviews. Damnit LJ, why must you 'fix' what wasn't broken with the @#$%$^& subject headings!
You have two options:
gen question post:
http://cm-kink.livejournal.com/671.html
Signed In Comments Not Logged
Signed In Comments Not Screened
Anon Comments Logged
Anon Comments Not Screened
special IP free post:
http://gsyh.livejournal.com/563938.html
Signed In Comments Not Logged
Signed In Comments Not Screened
Anon Comments Not Logged
Anon Comments Screened