Comments | clarabellemcnts: How do you fight for someone who doesn't think they are worthy fighting for?

clarabellemcnts

How do you fight for someone who doesn't think they are worthy fighting for?

Mar 01, 2007 12:52

I am a storyteller. papa was a storyteller, and i am one, too. it's incorporated into my actress training, it is a gift. answering hard questions and storytelling only mix when you answer the hard questions with a story.

ok, and what's the deal with this whole "i'm feeling depressed, so i'm going to try to drag someone else down with me"? thing? my ( Read more... )

boys, rant, emotions

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wschmrdr March 1 2007, 20:31:39 UTC

I'm going to assume I'm one of those you're not disappointed about.

Sure I may be depressed at times, but you actually make me feel like I still have a chance in life. I hate to ever think of this as profiting from your misery, and I don't obvious think of it like that, but you help me realize that there's most likely someone out there searching hard for each of us.

Everyone is worth fighting for. It's just a question of which direction you shoot your bullets. Usually guys don't like to pursue something they don't feel they have an advantage on, because it means a smaller possibility of them "winning". One of the best things a guy can feel, though, is to know that you aren't going to give them up. At first the response may seem like dragging them along, but in time, they'll appreciate it. I hope they know that.

As for paragraph 4......

*HUGS*

*HUGS* clarabellemcnts March 1 2007, 23:17:57 UTC

what do you mean by "an advantage"?

you're right, you are not the one that i'm disappointed about. I ended up crying on the shoulder of one of the targets of this post minutes after i posted it. (the other target is a few states away).

I'm that I can do little things to cheer you up :-) that's actually the best news i've heard in a while.

Re: *HUGS* wschmrdr March 2 2007, 02:34:07 UTC

by an advantage, just that guys have a need for conversations and arguments to be in their favor, otherwise they just don't want to participate.

Re: *HUGS* clarabellemcnts March 2 2007, 03:07:49 UTC

eh?

what do you mean by "in their favor"? guys want to win at all times? win what? i'm not understanding.

contradictacat March 2 2007, 05:31:19 UTC

::hugs:: You know I'm always here, hon.

scrolls in the desert liriteliora March 2 2007, 18:01:31 UTC

I don't know the situation that caused your reaction, but there's probably something you should know ( ... )