I haven’t written a post since April 19, 2015. There has so much that has happened since 2015! I finished residency and fellowship training, got married, found a job, had a boy, got some rental property, went through a pandemic, and had another baby boy!

I have so much to be grateful for, and to post on facebook for the world to see, but underneath ( Read more... )

At the heart of it all, people just want to leave a lasting impression on the world. Some kind of mark that validates their existence. Some kind of legacy that screams in the face of unforgiving Father Time and proves that at one time they mattered. That they existed ( Read more... )

Him: got any plans next Thurs or Friday night?

two weeks pass by with no response

Him: hey, want to grab bachi burger this Sunday?
Her: I might have school on Sunday, let me check!

a day goes by with no response

Him: so do you have school on Sunday?
Her: I don't. What time were you thinking?
Him: 6 or 7ish for dinner?
Her: I have something ( Read more... )

Her: Question, why is my picture still on your Instagram?
Me: just haven't deleted it
Me: you still have one of me on yours
Her: Touche...

Me: question
Her: ?
Me: so why is my pic still on your instagram? :P
Her: Honestly because it was a fun night
Me: yea, it was
Her: I'm sorry by the way.
Me: for what?
Her: For being harsh
Me: well, you did ( Read more... )

what are you supposed to think when you finally show your nagging aunt a pic of your ex and she says:
"she's too beautiful for you. so that's your type? it's hard to maintain a relationship with someone so perfect looking."

Him: so what are you looking for on tinder?
Him: (sorry, no hook ups)
Her: Haha oh darn!
Her: Well, as you see, I'm at the age when a lot of my friends are getting married. I'm hoping I can join the married couples soon cause I'm running out of single people to hang out with
Him: man, that's a lot of pressure! don't propose to me before we even ( Read more... )

(unknown girl adds him on fb)
Him: have we met before?
Her: No. I just came across your page :)

(he sees that they have one mutual friend)
Him: cool, so how do you know _____?
Her: Not sure. We've been Facebook friends for a while lol. He and I have a lot of friends in common.
Him: so you just add all the good looking guys on fb? i'm not just a ( Read more... )

funniest response i've gotten on tinder:
"Are you the SAT? because i'd do you for 3 hours and 45 minutes... with a ten minute break half way through for snacks"

Her fb: "I'm sick! Someone bring me Gatorade and Chicken Soup :/"

text ( Read more... )

within the span of about a three week period, he convinced himself that he had gone through all five stages of loss and grief and had accepted that they were no longer together, but still felt that he wanted to remain friends. under the pretense of getting his shirt and sweats back, he was supposed to grab lunch and talk over some things, figure ( Read more... )