Archbishop Chaput from Denver has written an excellent article in First Things titled Conscience, Courage and Children with Down Syndrome regarding the high rate of abortions among those diagnosed prenatally with Down Syndrome, and what this reflects on us as a society. It begins: (
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However, I'm not going to condemn someone who makes a difficult decision to terminate a DS fetus. I may not make that decision, but I certainly cannot say what I would do as a woman in that situation. Having met some parents who really struggle with their DS children, it's a very hard life parenting one. I'd like to think that the easy answer would be, well, just give it up for adoption if you can't or won't parent it, but I'm a male who does not have to deal with the burden of a pre-natal decision.
I applaud this article for putting a face on DS children.
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That said, I think beyond just putting a face to DS children, this article goes to the heart of what it says about us as a society that we are moving more or less towards a eugenics type mentality, that children merely born with birth defects are not worth having. It is not a condemnation on the person, but it certainly is an indictment on society as a whole.
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Wonderful emotivism, it's touching, I'll give you that.
Until the good man has taken care of a special needs person for years himself, or at least lived in a household with them, he should be careful, though. Yes, of course, he's a church official, it's his obligation to point out such things, etc. etc., and I can even see his point. I think everybody can. But it's still so easy to talk about something you will never have to experience.
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But the point that I was making is that many of the decisions made to abort are not dreadful or huge. Down's Syndrome might be scary -- there are just as many people who abort because it was simply a 'bad time to have a baby'. It's linked to the kind of detachment people feel towards a foetus; that it is somehow a 'potential human', and not a life in itself.
While I consider myself pro-choice because I don't believe in banning abortions, there's no real reason to mollycuddle people when they are at the risk of making wrong choices in their lives. It's fundamentally and morally wrong, because it is enabling someone to do something wrong. At some point, compassion has to stop, especially when it comes to situations when you end up feeding someone morphine because it makes the person happy, or giving alcohol to an alcoholic because quitting is harder.
Pregnancy is always scary; I had a pregnancy scare once, too, and I was determined to abort. Parenting is always scary. While there is a ( ... )
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NHS failure on Down's screening kills healthy babies;
The lives of babies with Down's syndrome are not worthless;
Delayed motherhood behind increase in Down's syndrome babies, research says;
The upside of Down's syndrome;
The human cost of screening for Down's.
What I like most about these are the words of those who are involved with people with Down's, and particularly of those who are parents of people with Down's, talking about how valuable their children are.
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