Sifting through...

[cheftim]

Yesterday I spent a fair amount of time sifting though stuff... Piles of stuff... Since my knee was not being cooperative, I only sifted through a small pile of stuff and the rest will have to wait till later, but it's a start. Should have been doing this all along since March, but I am the world's biggest procrastinator. I only went through the

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[hagi]

How sad that the relationship which lasted for 11 years has to come to an end. I reckon your reminiscence helps you to search for the time that made you happy. Although you are now sad, in the long run, the benefits of reminiscence are to build up your own identity and life, as well as to increase your positive emotion while reducing your negative one (psychological studies show such correlation). Cheer up, mate!

=)

[cheftim]

Thanks... I'm doing ok most of the time... There's always going to be something, sometime or somewhere that triggers some kind of memory, and that's ok. Can't have gone through the past 11 years and not expect to remember things... Wouldn't want to either. Even though the circumstances behind the break up were unpleasant, there's always going to be the memories of what was good, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Thanks for the nice comment. Hope to hear more from you soon,

Stay Safe,

Tim

[katbyte]

Many of us have been there, it gets better. Be thankful for the memories some never have that. If that doesn't work, go get laid.

[cheftim]

Thanks. :-) I am thankful for them. As to the last sentence... after nearly spraying my soda from my mouth as I read it, I will say that I have. ;-)Appartently that does work as well. :-)

[hagi]

How are you doing? It has been two weeks and more to see your entry. Is everything all right?

=)