Farewell, Mitch...

[charliemc]

I'm feeling more than a little sad as I sit here typing this...

Today was the Memorial service for Mitch, Marilyn's and my best friend (and a close friend to sister Sue, as well). Obviously I've mentioned him a lot recently, so people already know about his passing -- and that we've been preparing for this day.

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Comments

[pondhopper]

Oh yes indeed. One should express love often and well.
I0m glad the memorial for Mitch was full of those who loved him.
(((hugs)))

[charliemc]

Thanks, Donna. You're such a dear...

I've been so depressed again since the service. I was just starting to feel adjusted, and it's like ripping the bandage off the wound, I guess. I feel raw and on the verge of tears every minute. (sigh)

Those people cared about him (at the church), but didn't know him at all. It was interesting to discover we were really the ONLY people in his life who knew him. I always thought there might be a few others, but there really weren't...

I want to be that person who practically drives others nuts saying 'I love you' constantly! (smile) I think I'm close to that now, but I do love my friends and family and actually enjoy telling them. It can't happen often enough.

(hugs)

[myhope]

I am glad you are all home, and settled now, and can put all the big stuff into perspective.

I am not terribly surprised about the service. Funny how often that happens.

shakes head

I thought of you all often yesterday, knowing it was going to be "the day". But since you will have his ashes you can make another "goodbye" day that is more meaningful too :)

love
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[charliemc]

Theresa, you're such a dear friend. Thanks for your kind words. You totally get it.

The people didn't know Mitch -- but Marilyn and I both think they WANTED to know him better. Too bad that jackass... um... minister (smile) couldn't have let us speak. He was such a showboat. Seriously.

I'm curious whether or not Taylor will actually want to be there when we spread Mitch's ashes or not. People were shocked by what an ass he was and even asked us what his problem was. He didn't like not getting his way, I'm telling you...

(hugs)

[rekindle956]

*hugs*

[charliemc]

Thanks!

(hugs)

[charliemc]

Had to EDIT because it posted the WRONG icon! Very odd...