Bridesmaidzilla - A.K.A. “The grown woman that behaves like a 14 year old”

[carriep63]

I will be the first to admit that this post is decidedly ONE SIDED and most likely favorably inclined toward my own veiwpoint, but this IS my journal. I only have my own experience and a few stories told to me by the other offended party, but in bridesmaidzilla’s defense, I will try to stick to her OWN words rather than paraphrasing her if at all

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[sbaehr]

For the record, I removed BZC from my friend’s list years ago. Why? Because I sensed martyrdom and drama from the get-go. I read the antics of a child and a hypocrite. And my immediate reaction was to remove that sort of negative and self-destructive influence from my life as quickly as possible. And I always, *always*, worried about Bride J not doing the same. But, whatever...not for me to decide.

I too watched Bride J stress and worry about BZC over the years about crap that seemed self-inflicted and yet have BZC give her the cold shoulder at every turn. If Bride J fretted over me even half as much during my time of hardship, I should consider myself extremely lucky.

I was tempted to react to the events mentioned above from my own perspective, but honestly it isn’t worth it. While I felt it best for all parties that I remain as neutral as possible while these events were unfolding I am also glad this is over. This probably means I'm also talking shit but I really don't care.

[carriep63]

Thanks for the reply. You said it very eloquently when I just said "fuck" a lot.

[sbaehr]

It wasn't entirely on purpose. I was posting from work so I was forced to find alternatives to "fuck". Otherwise you can bet your fuckin' ass I'd have been saying "fuck". Although I did say "shit".....oops.

I posted this wrong initially so....now it's right.

[ayeita]

I left a reply and then thought "fuck it". These people know one side. You truly got one side of it and a almost completely made up side at that. Doesnt matter. I know why I made the decisions I made and I have to live with them and not anyone else. And obviously I am completely okay with them. Sorry to hear she was in the hospital. Had no clue.

[ellax93]

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