Pshht, what am I talking about, I barely post here, either, lol. ;)
I totally understand your feelings of not knowing what you want to do with your life, and the anxiety. I've been kinda floundering this past year, specifically when it comes to jobs and just not knowing where my life is going. It sucks. But I will say that I did finally reach a point where I decided to find a counselor to talk to about it (among many other things in my life that are distressing me), and it has really helped. I've still got a long way to go, but I feel like I'm working toward something, even if that "something" isn't totally defined yet. So if you feel like it would help, you should definitely talk to someone.
Your planning for 2014 sounds wonderful! I am planning another cruise, and maybe even one other trip if I can afford it/can get the time off work. :)
That's so encouraging to hear that speaking with a counselor has helped. It's so weird... as loving and wonderful as my family is, we tend to suppress our deep emotions/thoughts/fears a LOT. My sister informed me a year or so ago that she was seeing a therapist and my immediate thought was, "WHAT?? WHAT?? IS SHE OKAY? WHAT'S WRONG?" but after thinking about it and doing some research, I've come to realize therapy is just being able to unleash thoughts/fears to another person without (hopefully) judgment. So. That would be GREAT for me, really.
All the best for you for this year too, my dear! <3
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Pshht, what am I talking about, I barely post here, either, lol. ;)
I totally understand your feelings of not knowing what you want to do with your life, and the anxiety. I've been kinda floundering this past year, specifically when it comes to jobs and just not knowing where my life is going. It sucks. But I will say that I did finally reach a point where I decided to find a counselor to talk to about it (among many other things in my life that are distressing me), and it has really helped. I've still got a long way to go, but I feel like I'm working toward something, even if that "something" isn't totally defined yet. So if you feel like it would help, you should definitely talk to someone.
Your planning for 2014 sounds wonderful! I am planning another cruise, and maybe even one other trip if I can afford it/can get the time off work. :)
Happy New Year!
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That's so encouraging to hear that speaking with a counselor has helped. It's so weird... as loving and wonderful as my family is, we tend to suppress our deep emotions/thoughts/fears a LOT. My sister informed me a year or so ago that she was seeing a therapist and my immediate thought was, "WHAT?? WHAT?? IS SHE OKAY? WHAT'S WRONG?" but after thinking about it and doing some research, I've come to realize therapy is just being able to unleash thoughts/fears to another person without (hopefully) judgment. So. That would be GREAT for me, really.
All the best for you for this year too, my dear! <3
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