well, that's an experience.

[burntcopper]

after telling him no and making the mistake of actually replying to his email, it appears Graham went and read that entry, revealed himself to have the maturity of an _insert epithet here_, and said that from the first time he saw me around the office he felt that I was the kind of person he could have a serious relationship with, and justified

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[jamjar]

Also, if she's his ex, doesn't that imply that it didn't work out and maybe, just maybe, it's not a good indicator for future relationship success?

[burntcopper]

He never seems to think of this. And now I'm looking back on various bits of his past behaviour in a new light and going 'er....'

[delle]

^^

what I was going to say. gee, guy-who-won't-take-no, maybe you should rethink your 'my first impression means we're fated to be together forever' thinking there?

[davidcook]

Pretty common type, especially among geekier/nerdier circles. It's related to the "I'm a Nice Guy, therefore I Deserve to be Rewarded for it" mindset.

[burntcopper]

amazingly, all the self-described 'Nice Guys' turn out to be utter slimeball creeps. and then they wonder why girls give them a wide berth.

[cidercupcakes]

Not strictly a male phenomenon, either, as I have learned!

[genarti]

Ugh.

[cidercupcakes]

UGH. >:(

[burntcopper]

with the skin-crawling : utter justification for cutting him dead!

I'm waiting for the 'die, bitch' glares and more speed walking so I can give him shit-eating grins.

Hmmm

[andysears]

I wish it was only guys......
THAT is why cattle prods should be legal in this country !