Comments | bunnymcfoo: Wherein I talk a lot about actual serious business

bunnymcfoo

Wherein I talk a lot about actual serious business

May 09, 2010 08:23

So I've decided to stop automatically posting under friendslock for a little while, to see how it feels.

This is, I suppose, as good a place to start as any, particularly considering that this post would have been unlocked regardless.

Let me say first and foremost that I agree with Kita to the fullest extent of my abilities. If you come to me ( Read more... )

rape culture at large, fandom: spn, bunny gets her rant on, public post, and the earth did not devour her

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bunnymcfoo May 11 2010, 03:03:28 UTC

♥ thank you.

sparkymonster May 11 2010, 03:12:56 UTC

I think the anonymous fangirl savior was apetslife

bunnymcfoo May 11 2010, 03:17:56 UTC

Thank you! I've spent the last four years wondering.

eta: fixed the number. holy crap, I can't believe it's been four years since Nashville. o.o

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bunnymcfoo May 11 2010, 15:08:17 UTC

Hi, hi, yes that was me! And that was you! :D :D :D

*HUGS* It totally WAS an epic night, and ugh, you are AWESOME. ♥

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bunnymcfoo May 11 2010, 15:09:28 UTC

I love you right back, and I'm exactly the same way with giving money. I'd rather be occasionally taken advantage of than not help people who need it.

Trigger warning - comment re: physical and emotional abuse unfilthy May 11 2010, 12:39:01 UTC

I replied to a comment you made in harmonyfb's journal, and then found that it was automatically screened, and since I'm not sure if you'll get it or not, and really it wasn't about her at all, I figured I'd repost here, and hope that it doesn't feel like I'm randomly invading your space.
My original comment:

"by the time he held me down on the bed, whispered that he loved me, totally ignored my crying and shaking, and hurt me badly enough that I was bleeding after, he had skillfully undermined my sense of self-worth to the point where I didn't think he had raped me."My boyfriend didn't rape me. He hit me with various objects, he locked me in and he locked me out, he shoved, dragged, restrained, slapped and punched me, broke things on my body, and threatened to kill me. Still, I find myself, almost 20 years later (I was 16 at the time), almost automatically starting to type "and I have the scars to prove it." Which I do, but that's not the point. It's never the point ( ... )

vagal_nerve August 8 2010, 09:30:38 UTC

*like*