I suppose I'd managed to put it off for long enough, but it's time I reworked how I do things again. I'll be bringing back some old stuff (like the exercise, and parts of my old dieting habits), and some new stuff (managing finances, maintaining home, and my social profile at work), and, as usual, a bit of soul searching.
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Years have passed and I've been lucky to reacquaint myself with him - interacting more as adults than father and son. I suppose I could have been (should have been) pissed off at him for all those years he wasn't there but then that would have gotten in the way of the friendship we have now - and not changed the past at all. So, I guess there's a happy ending there.
Probably not enough similarity to your relationship but your entry hit close to home on a few points... Best of luck.
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I, personally, think that family is as family does.
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Also, I would caution you to consider what you are willing to give and what you are hoping to get and see how that fits in with what you know of him. Then decide how personable to be or how much of a rant to give.
Other than that, he sounds like a lonely, sad old man. Who happens to have been your shitty parental unit as a child and a person who is attempting in short order to restore or have you help restore what he's lost.
You are the bigger person. You can't change the past. But, you can develop an adult relationship with this man, which might be quite rewarding as long as you stick to your boundaries and remind him of his.
Ahh, love. Good luck, Bill. *smooch*
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