Comments | belenen: my lj patterns / job stress / Ace visits, explosion of social w biofam & friends / Sense8 marathon

belenen

my lj patterns / job stress / Ace visits, explosion of social w biofam & friends / Sense8 marathon

Jul 22, 2016 05:44

icon: "interconnectedness (two bald purple-skinned people in the ocean: from Joan Slonczewski's "Door Into Ocean")"
( reflecting on LJ patterns )

anxiety / overwhelmed / stress, evelyn, topaz, films / shows, cass, those passing through, add-pi, allison, serenity, jaime, cousin e, biofamily, lj my beloved home, kylei, ace, pibling l, sande

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libraspirit2101 July 22 2016, 13:14:39 UTC

I hope that you're able to secure a position sometime soon, preferably for a position that you'll love and be good at.

Keep applying for a wide variety of different positions just to have a better chance, and you'll land one soon.

belenen July 22 2016, 21:45:13 UTC

thanks for the well-wishes!

btw, I prefer not to get advice unless I specifically request it: I don't find it helpful when it is volunteered.

ragnarok_08 July 22 2016, 17:42:45 UTC

I do hope that you're able to secure a position sooner or later - in the meantime, keep applying for places when you can.

That's good that you're enjoying Topaz in your house :)

belenen July 22 2016, 21:45:58 UTC

thanks for the well-wishes and joy share ;-)

btw, I prefer not to get advice unless I specifically request it: I don't find it helpful when it is volunteered.

ragnarok_08 July 23 2016, 01:47:42 UTC

You're welcome *^^*

Oh okay, sorry about that X_X;

belenen July 25 2016, 01:03:26 UTC

no worries! <3

zimtkeks July 22 2016, 20:01:54 UTC

I'm sorry your relatives are so dishonest. :-(

Wow, Ace is extremely straightforward! But apparently they aren't always, as they apparently concealed their intention in their conversation with you. Why do you think that is?

And how did you feel about Topaz' response?

Sorry, forgot to include this: Of course I hope you'll find a job that makes you happy and pays the rent, soon!

belenen July 22 2016, 21:48:24 UTC

I don't think that Ace was aware of what they wanted in the conversation. I think they felt uncomfortable about the topic, so brought it up, but didn't know what to ask for.

I loved Topaz' response, it made me happy and it was way more open than they usually are with strangers, so that made me feel extra loved and also happy that they were willing to give that to Ace.

thanks for the well-wishes!

zimtkeks July 24 2016, 23:55:28 UTC

Do you think you'll talk about it again with Ace? Maybe now that you've realized it, you could give them something they still need?

That's great that Topaz' answer was so wonderful. :-)

belenen July 25 2016, 01:04:49 UTC

Yes, when I can -- they are very difficult for me to be in contact with generally since I find talking on the phone so difficult and that is the only way they communicate long distance.

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thatunicornfizz July 22 2016, 23:51:17 UTC

I hope you're able to find a job soon, and preferably one that you like.

I'm glad you were able to enjoy time with Topaz in your home.

Sense8 is the most wonderful show. Az and I both have very strong feelings about it.

belenen July 25 2016, 01:05:30 UTC

thank you!

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belenen July 25 2016, 01:06:15 UTC

sorry that you know this feeling too! I hope it goes away forever for both of us very soon.

raidingparty July 28 2016, 21:23:33 UTC

I also saw this happen, and share the feeling. I got lucky at one point, but I totally recognize that it was luck and not the inherent awesomeness that is me.