my experience with MM last fall / falling fast and crashing / guard-guide-"dominance" realizations

[belenen]

Lately I've been thinking a lot about a person I'll call MM (don't want it to be searchable), who I met at my first TBC in 2011, and followed zir on twitter for the next year, feeling a great deal of admiration for zir thoughts and passion. When I went to TBC in 2012, I ended up staying at a mutual friends house with MM, as my flight was delayed

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[zzzsleepyfoxzzz]

Hey. I'm really glad you posted this. Thank you. It was valuable for me to read because I had the sense that some very intense intimacy was happening between the two of you but M was never really able to articulate it to me. (Which is totally okay, of course. I don't need to know details about what goes on between my lovers and other people they're intimate with. It just helps me process my own complicated feelings when I do

[belenen]

Well I like you too ;-) and feel free to talk to me anytime or ask me any questions about anything.

Please please don't feel at all worried about being gushy/lovey/happy, I 100% support anyone showing their love as effusively as they desire. My reaction is usually very different, but regardless, I don't think anyone should ever feel pressured to hide their love at all. My pain was caused by the situation and not by you.

*happily hugs back*

[zzzsleepyfoxzzz]

:)

[shioneh]

A ♥ of acknowledgment and appreciation of your posting and an intention to reply when more able.