initiating contact / communication patterns w Kylei, Adi, Arizona / talkin w Abby about expectations

[belenen]

There tends to be a disparity in my relationships regarding initiating contact: I tend to do much more of it than the other person, and when that happens for a long period of time, my self-worth takes a nosedive. So my first reaction is to see if the other person is willing & able to do more initiating, and if that's not the case, then I decrease

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[jupitercornwall]

<3

[rextrocular]

It was so good to see you too, that type of intimate exchange and co-self discovery... the kind where we both prompt and enjoy knowing about one another'd growth is something so nourishing and fulfilling. I feel like we speak similar languages and it is sad to me that I wore you out so much towards the end there. I agree we've both learned a lot and I am very happy to be reconnecting with you and building on a strong base of love and communication.

Thank you <3