*hugggggggggggs* yes, I would love that, as long as I had something warm to drink ;-) I think your company would be really healing for me right now (I'd always love it but somehow I feel like you'd 'get' this in a way most people wouldn't). Much love to you too ♥
This is the first I've heard about it. :( We've already got plans for Friday and Saturday night - Pagan Pub Night on Friday and a friends gaming party on Saturday.
I'm sending you a billion and one hugs and super warm energy. I can't believe that your ex would do something like that, and I find it so hypocritical that the new love interest doesn't have to work but suddenly you're "bad" for not taking on a job (at your ex's request)? That makes me livid. Don't let someone like that tear at your soul, hon. There are other issues your ex needs to work through, and you don't need to be the punching bag. You're always welcome at our home, and you can come sit with our tree and kitties and have good conversation. Seriously. Your friends love you so much and want to see you happy and smiling, radiant as always.
Maybe I need to learn how -- and WHEN -- to give up on people when they don't care!I finally had to accept this. When someone stops acting like they care and only wish harm and hateful messages to you and/or other people, sometimes the best thing we can do is cut the strings. When I finally learned that and cut that first string, it felt like such a relief. It's so hard, believe me... but you'
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suddenly you're "bad" for not taking on a job (at your ex's request)?
That's the biggest issue -- had ze even ONCE asked me to get a job I would have been immediately searching for one! Ze INSISTED that ze was happiest with me not working. That makes me really angry.
Honestly I think the ex is stressed because ze was planning on the new gf finding a job immediately after moving in, and then ze apparently 'offered' to let the gf not work for a while, and now ze has two dependents and not enough resources. And as usual when stressed, everything becomes about my 'failings.'
sending you a billion and one hugs and super warm energy. ... You're always welcome at our home, and you can come sit with our tree and kitties and have good conversation. Seriously. Your friends love you so much and want to see you happy and smiling, radiant as always.awwww, thank you so much ♥ I might take you up on that -- Christmas trees are such a big deal to me and the idea of not having one makes me want to cry. To share someone else's would be lovely
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Just give me a buzz! We're a bit in and out this week because we found a couple of restaurant certificates that have to be used by Thursday (there went my hope for a quiet week at the house!), but Thursday night I'm sure we'll be at home to take a break from all that. Or whatever is best for you! I don't keep presents under the tree (boo thieves) but it's all pretty and sparkly and colorful. :)
Just hang in there! So many people see your light and love you for it. <3
Oh, this week I have something Thurs and Fri and Sat. Am hoping to be free Sun for a rest! but maybe next week before Christmas? Are y'all staying in town?
WHAT. THE. FUCK. An anniversary call? That is _beyond_ horrible. I am very glad you are no longer attached to such a poisonous person, and I hope zir negative energy gets out of your life soon. *hugshugshugs* Let me know if there's anything I can do.
Also: I am sending you a holiday present, and a cheer-up present! This might turn into a package of things, and it will probably reach you after the holidays are over. BUT know that it's coming. That said, would you mind sending along your address (either via facebook or LJ message?). If you're ok with that. I seem to recall you liked mail, and trusted people on your f-list with your address so...um...yeah.
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Maybe I need to learn how -- and WHEN -- to give up on people when they don't care!I finally had to accept this. When someone stops acting like they care and only wish harm and hateful messages to you and/or other people, sometimes the best thing we can do is cut the strings. When I finally learned that and cut that first string, it felt like such a relief. It's so hard, believe me... but you' ( ... )
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That's the biggest issue -- had ze even ONCE asked me to get a job I would have been immediately searching for one! Ze INSISTED that ze was happiest with me not working. That makes me really angry.
Honestly I think the ex is stressed because ze was planning on the new gf finding a job immediately after moving in, and then ze apparently 'offered' to let the gf not work for a while, and now ze has two dependents and not enough resources. And as usual when stressed, everything becomes about my 'failings.'
sending you a billion and one hugs and super warm energy. ... You're always welcome at our home, and you can come sit with our tree and kitties and have good conversation. Seriously. Your friends love you so much and want to see you happy and smiling, radiant as always.awwww, thank you so much ♥ I might take you up on that -- Christmas trees are such a big deal to me and the idea of not having one makes me want to cry. To share someone else's would be lovely ( ... )
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Just hang in there! So many people see your light and love you for it. <3
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you are so unbelievably amazing. so sad you are hurting and in pain. wish i could come over right now and give you a hug.
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Also: I am sending you a holiday present, and a cheer-up present! This might turn into a package of things, and it will probably reach you after the holidays are over. BUT know that it's coming. That said, would you mind sending along your address (either via facebook or LJ message?). If you're ok with that. I seem to recall you liked mail, and trusted people on your f-list with your address so...um...yeah.
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