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folkchick3 January 6 2007, 14:51:27 UTC
I think these are wonderful goals! I agree with what you said about resolutions and why they rarely work. I love that you don't box yourself in with self imposed rules, you are so wise and free, and I admire that. Your post reads less like "resolutions" or goals, and more like a wishlist.... "things I want to do FOR myself". I love that focus. I think we are raised to think that doing things for ourselves (taking time to create, resting, dancing, getting a tattoo even) is selfish, and it isn't. It's crucial. It takes self understanding and wisdom to see that, and strength to own it. So hooray for Bel! I am going to try to follow your example. Also, you have me missing the Ga. Renaissance Festival! It's been YEARS since I've been there. My best friend used to work it, and I'd come up and work it with her for four or five days every year after the Fla. festival season ended (I worked the Bay Area Festival for about fourteen years!) What fun!

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belenen January 17 2007, 09:51:12 UTC
thank you! I hope you do focus on self-growth activities! and RenFest is one of my favorite things EVER. ;-)

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malignlibra January 6 2007, 17:12:53 UTC
.x. wiggles happily .x.

I love your goals. Especially the part of hanging with me and SabR more ;) It tickles me in ways I can't express in text. I'll have to give you a big hug next time I see you [hopefully soon ^.^]

I love how good your goals are going to make you feel and make others feel good as well, that's awesome.

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sabr January 6 2007, 22:24:48 UTC
x| agrees |x

A hug for you can't come soon enough! I need to volcalize my goals...

x| sidles up to Bel, wrapping herself around her playfully and lovingly |x

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belenen January 17 2007, 09:53:15 UTC
eeeeee! yay for hugs and lupine cuddles!

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belenen January 17 2007, 09:52:35 UTC
ohh yay!!!! HUGS!!!!!! *gleeee!*

thank you lovey!

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woah_the_kettle January 6 2007, 18:52:17 UTC
Man, you are so dang cool.
I LOVE leaving "you are beautiful" notes everywhere, in fact, its my graffiti tag.
And I openly tell strangers they are beautiful. As long as I am safe about it, it should be fine, I figure. haha.

I want to get a tattoo, too. It hurts how much I want mine. You are too cool, you know?

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belenen January 17 2007, 09:55:35 UTC
oh hell yeah I am so dang cool! and so are you. We need to meet and blow up the world with too much coolness in one place. XD

I totally tell strangers they're beautiful too, though I still have a hard time telling guys that because I do NOT want them thinking I'm hitting on them, but I'm gettin' bettah.

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woah_the_kettle January 17 2007, 19:44:39 UTC
TRUTH!!! Where you livin' now? I thought I read Georgia at one point, but could be wrong. If it's true, I'm living in Tallahassee, Florida, so visiting may in fact not be that difficult.

Yeah, usually I'll tell girls straight up, but guys I have to debate whether they are "safe" or not.

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delicatexflower January 6 2007, 20:57:57 UTC

so so cute....

i love your goals!

i want so badly to do all of those too.

i think you'll look great in purple hair,
i once had it and it was the best ^__^

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belenen January 17 2007, 09:56:23 UTC
thanks! I am so looking forward to the purple hair! ;-)

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armandii January 6 2007, 21:21:27 UTC
I'm all for goals rather than rules and resolutions. A part of me will always rebel against imposed limitations, even self imposed ones.

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belenen January 17 2007, 09:56:44 UTC
I KNOW! *is a rebel*

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