My thoughts on him ....
In the past few years, since I was introduced to the lifestyle, I've had a lot of relationships. I've done a lot of searching both inward and outward. I've watched, I've listened, and on a minimal level, I've participated. I'm not new, yet I'm extremely green. Confused yet? For years, the reason behind all of this, the reason behind being involved ( Read more... )
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I find this bit...troubling.
The whole point of this type of relationship is that you are better together than either of you is alone.
You have to tote your own firewood when it comes to respect. As someone's dominant, I don't think I could ever ask them to do anything like that and I don't know that it is my job to always do that for them. Support and even coach but my best work as a dominant would be to teach them to do that for themselves and be content about their own efforts.
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I'm not asking him to develop respect for me that I haven't earned. I can fight my own battles, and I will. What I don't want is to have to fight them alone when I'm in a relationship with someone. I'm good at standing on my own two feet and standing up for myself, without anyone else's assistance ... I've been doing it for a very long time. But for once, just once, I'd like to have someone who will stand up for me, especially when I'm not around and demand the respect from others that I've earned in my 33 years on this earth. And already he's shown that he's willing to do that.... be my rock when I need him to be.
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