It's Done?

[beartalon]

The work I did today with the journals completed the last box I had to visit.  The discussions with Jason's mother over several specific items have all been resolved.  Except for paperwork I just have to file and objects to give to certain people, everything is put away in the place that makes the most sense right now.  My once crowded living room

Comments

[bitterlawngnome]

I can't tell of course, from just LJ. but I know in my own life, when someone passes away I'm go go go until the work is all done but then there has to be a period of just being with it. floating, sort of. does it work that way for you?

[beartalon]

Yes it does. There's a certain quality of closure in processing as much as possible as soon as possible. After that I can contemplate when the demands on my time and energy are reduced. At that point, I can feel more or recognize specific feelings that were masked by the grief or shock.

[melted_snowball]

Jewelry-making sounds like a great idea.

[beartalon]

I think so too.