College: academics are only slightly secondary to social life at the moment. Making new friends, excellent people blah blah blah. Grades, um... moving on
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I have no problem striking up a one-on-one conversation. Problems arise when I'm not in a one-on-one setting, ot there is loud music, or just other stuff that doesn't allow for a stimulating conversation. *shrugs*
My current and only source of one-on-one-ness would be Facebook, but there's something creepy about getting to know someone via facebook witht eh intention of "getting" them. Doesn't mean I won't go that way, but I just really want one or two chances at one-on-one conversation. I'm looking hard, man.
Your requirements for a guy are similar to mine. I had pretty good luck finding such boys because I found some at local colleges, they introduced me to their friends, etc. I don't need a relationship-type thing for someone to be sexy, though it helps a lot. The casual sex receptors in my brain may be a little more active than yours. %)
I should craft a personal out of "non-flamboyant, semi-nerdy, sensitive and playful guy" except semi-nerdy isn't necessary for me. I've been getting it on with some intensely nerdy guys. Like Caltech dudes.
ahahaha... just about died laughing when I saw that last line, 'cause I have an ex at Caltech. He's still pretty hot in my book, but yeah, "intensely nerdy" is a given. sigh.
I was shocked at my apparent lack of casual sex receptors, I'm sure you can understand why, being as perverted as I am %) But whatever, roll with it.
Apparently the breed of gay boy we both like is either rare or just in hiding at Stanford.
Like Caltech dudes. Hahahahaha.
"Semi-nerdy" meaning at least semi-nerdy, with regards to that. If they're super-nerdy and fulfill every other requirement on my short little list, all I ask of them is to be sweet and sensitive about my relative idiocy.
Ok, at least semi-nerdy is better. A total lack of nerdiness would not work. What would we talk about? Sports? Not unless his definition of sports includes fencing or chess, in which case he'd qualify as least semi-nerdy anyway.
two things of much excitement 1) m'boy and i have, due to our marvelously geeky housemates, become addicted to BSG. i mean, addicted. i mean we put off sex so that we can watch just one more episode, and then another, and then another. oh my gods.
2) i know we go to diff schools and all, and what works here might not work there, but i've found blatantly obvious if a bit awkward is a really good approach. facebook message him, say, hey i was poking around and you look cute, we should get coffee, it might work.
You have no idea how joyous an occasion I consider it to be when a good friend discovers the wonderfulness of BSG. Just... yes. YES oh frak yes!
2) Thank for that. I read that and immediately went to Facebook-message him. And then I chickened out. But then I found a way around it. See, since nobody has cable around here, my dad taped and mailed me the first four episodes of Season 3 (BSG), and a couple of us were thinking of haivng a BSG night. And nice jewish boy likes BSG according to Facebook. Soo... I left a message being like "hey! You like BSG! Awesome, hey look we're going to watch it one of these nights, I'll tell you about it and you can come over cool? Cool." (except I was more suave).
and yes, oh my goodness gracious me, bsg is the shit! i'm only a few eps into the second season but i'm hoping to catch up soon so that i can watch it weekly with basically everyone i know.
hahaha everything is just crazyinsane! WIS is being WISish. Y'know? All this construction is crazy. English class: "BBT BTT BRRTTTTTTTT" jackhammer. Chemistry: "VVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVV" chainsaw or something. PSAT: "FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVV" leaf blower.... WIS is just a very complicated onomatopoeia these days. With mud. And gravel! The irony is that we HAVE to walk down the hill now. Or maybe you wanted gossip? Hmm... Well Ms Rambow's baby has veiny legs. *gossipgossip* Unless you wanted insight into how school is going in general... Ah, it's pretty good. Hectic. But rather good ^_^
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I have no problem striking up a one-on-one conversation. Problems arise when I'm not in a one-on-one setting, ot there is loud music, or just other stuff that doesn't allow for a stimulating conversation. *shrugs*
My current and only source of one-on-one-ness would be Facebook, but there's something creepy about getting to know someone via facebook witht eh intention of "getting" them. Doesn't mean I won't go that way, but I just really want one or two chances at one-on-one conversation. I'm looking hard, man.
hugs!
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I should craft a personal out of "non-flamboyant, semi-nerdy, sensitive and playful guy" except semi-nerdy isn't necessary for me. I've been getting it on with some intensely nerdy guys. Like Caltech dudes.
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Apparently the breed of gay boy we both like is either rare or just in hiding at Stanford.
Like Caltech dudes.
Hahahahaha.
"Semi-nerdy" meaning at least semi-nerdy, with regards to that. If they're super-nerdy and fulfill every other requirement on my short little list, all I ask of them is to be sweet and sensitive about my relative idiocy.
great hearing from you!
hugs!
-Arty
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1) m'boy and i have, due to our marvelously geeky housemates, become addicted to BSG. i mean, addicted. i mean we put off sex so that we can watch just one more episode, and then another, and then another. oh my gods.
2) i know we go to diff schools and all, and what works here might not work there, but i've found blatantly obvious if a bit awkward is a really good approach. facebook message him, say, hey i was poking around and you look cute, we should get coffee, it might work.
love!
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You have no idea how joyous an occasion I consider it to be when a good friend discovers the wonderfulness of BSG. Just... yes. YES oh frak yes!
2) Thank for that. I read that and immediately went to Facebook-message him. And then I chickened out. But then I found a way around it. See, since nobody has cable around here, my dad taped and mailed me the first four episodes of Season 3 (BSG), and a couple of us were thinking of haivng a BSG night. And nice jewish boy likes BSG according to Facebook. Soo... I left a message being like "hey! You like BSG! Awesome, hey look we're going to watch it one of these nights, I'll tell you about it and you can come over cool? Cool." (except I was more suave).
So.
Does that count?
MUAH!
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and yes, oh my goodness gracious me, bsg is the shit! i'm only a few eps into the second season but i'm hoping to catch up soon so that i can watch it weekly with basically everyone i know.
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I aprove of the nice jewish boy.
go get 'im!
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*poof*
=D
hugs!
PS HOW IS EVERYTHING. Geez, how is it all going? Please tell me of WIS.
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The irony is that we HAVE to walk down the hill now.
Or maybe you wanted gossip? Hmm... Well Ms Rambow's baby has veiny legs. *gossipgossip*
Unless you wanted insight into how school is going in general... Ah, it's pretty good. Hectic. But rather good ^_^
that was the short version.
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Thanks babe!
HUGS!
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