sounds like my mom. She seemed 100 times stronger than I was when she was diagnosed last february. I was scared shitless to go see her...I'm like you, I don't deal well with sickness. But she was 100 times stronger than I was. But I still know now to this day that as much as I drove her nuts in calling almost everyday to check in on her because she was home alone alot during treatment, she still appreciated it.
She may seem strong on the outside, but I'm sure she's feeling pretty scared on the inside.
I'm Sorry to hear that!! Although We don't know each other that much, and I might not have a place to say, but just the same, mostly, now is a good time to say and do anything that you've ever wanted to with her, so that you won't regret things later! I understand what you mean when you say that you have this feeling inside you, it's like, you basically don't know what to do with yourself! It's like, you try to occupy your time so you won't dwell on it, but in those small seconds where you're not busy, You're mind wanders back to what you're trying to escape from! Tough Situation! I'm Sorry!! An intersting idea and quote I like to think of is, You don't encounter anything in life that You can't handle or deal with, success or failure, everything that is brought Your way is a test, in a way, but not a test that you're unable to pass! It may seem Very Unfair and probably is extremely Unfair and You may feel like You're gonna breakdown or that You want to give up, but it all makes You stronger, and as bad as it sounds, it's a process to
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My prayers are with you and your mom.
You can only do what you feel you need to do. Be there in the way your mom knows you can be there for her.
Stay strong for her. She needs your strength.
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But she was 100 times stronger than I was. But I still know now to this day that as much as I drove her nuts in calling almost everyday to check in on her because she was home alone alot during treatment, she still appreciated it.
She may seem strong on the outside, but I'm sure she's feeling pretty scared on the inside.
*hugs*
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i can't even begin to think of life without my mother being around.
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