Listen to what she says, not what you think is implied. If she says it's a break, it's a break. If you really don't want that, say so. If she really wants to break up, then that's what she should say. But if she hasn't, then it doesn't sound like you've broken up.
I sent her an e-mail around the time that I posted that. She replied with an e-mail that suggested breaking up and when I called her about it, she said she hadn't, then she hinted at it again but made me say "So you want to break up?" because she wasn't willing to say the words herself. Then once it was official and she actually said "We should break up." she still wouldn't give me a reason.
In my experience, saying 'break' is just a cowardly way of ditching the person and expecting them to make the efforts to move on after the fact. Less 'guilt' that way maybe.
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Lack of word saying is kind of her big problem.
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I hardly think you're overreacting.
As always, i'm kickin' around Tam.
- Justin
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