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baker_pence

Too tired for a proper subject!

Oct 16, 2009 22:57

I do apologize for the lack of updates lately! Unfortunately, I've been under the weather and cooped up in my bedroom at home. Thankfully it wasn't the sickness that's going around the campus, I was stuck with a cold. At least those disappear quite quickly ( Read more... )

work work work, help a guy out, roxas?, sick ew

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oilycodemonkey October 17 2009, 03:15:11 UTC

I'M POINTING AT YOU! YOU'RE the Pence Namine talks about? :3 B'awwww, she's right! You ARE adorable~~~! Can I squeeze your cheeks? :3 Ruffle your hair? :D HUG YOU SILLY? :D I've been neglected of hugs lately. D:

baker_pence October 17 2009, 03:20:50 UTC

Why the pointing? I haven't done anything...yet! You're a friend of Namine's hmm? Good things I hope... Nice to meet you~!

Uh... sure to all three! I'll even provide the food! :3

oilycodemonkey October 17 2009, 03:49:03 UTC

I point at everyone! :D AND YET?! What's that YET for?! Planning bad things, are we? Fuahahah! And yes I am. ^^ She's neat! No, horrible horrible things! Nice to meet you too! I'm Rikku! :3 AND YOU'RE PENCE! DUDE, I'M PSYCHIC!

Ugh, no food, thanks. :X Unless it's sherbet! I can always eat sherbet!

baker_pence October 17 2009, 15:12:36 UTC

Yet is just in case I screw something up~! Have to be prepared! :3 I think I should hide if her friends are coming to hunt for me! Oh yeah, I believe that~ I'M PENCE? REALLY?! :o

I've never made that... I'm sure it shouldn't be too hard to whip up some homemade stuff~

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firestarter8 October 17 2009, 09:08:33 UTC

Congratulations. She's a keeper, from what I've read ( ... )

baker_pence October 17 2009, 15:27:00 UTC

Thanks! I think she's pretty great myself~!

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Random love advice from a stranger, something I never thought I'd ask for. Thanks though, Axel! I'm Pence and Roxas and I have been friends for a while, I just haven't seen him lately.

Thanks for all of the advice! Looks like there's no clear answer on what to do huh? Just have to trust the instincts of someone that's never had a girlfriend before. At least she's sweet and forgiving if I do anything wrong!

firestarter8 October 17 2009, 21:35:21 UTC

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Well, then, I guess we're not strangers anymore. I think I came too forward. Nice to meet you.

And it doesn't matter whether you never had a girlfriend before. Many people don't at first, right? That's why you learn by experience. Just take in that you'll know when she doesn't want to go beyond: in movements, body language. Take it slow, and take it easy, progress step by step. That's all you need to keep in mind.If she's sweet and forgiving as you say, then there's definitely no reason to fret at all. She'll understand that you didn't mean passing the boundaries. You'll be alright.

Now if you want to know about what you should be doing when in the moment, that's another subject. I repeat, instinct. When you're into it, your body will automatically touch what you feel like touching (unless you're shy). You're unconsciously aware of what makes a woman's body. I would recommend keeping and tracing your hands around her legs, thighs, back, or waist. Then if you feel you can approach more to the "rest", for lack of a better ( ... )

[Private] strahlflyer October 17 2009, 10:59:22 UTC

Ah, l'amour. The infectious sting of Cupid's arrow, the gentle kiss of Venus and Aphrodite... you get the general mythological line of thought I'm traversing here.

And by "doing more than kissing", I'm assuming you wish to broach a more, ah, physical plain of your relationship, am I correct ( ... )

Re: [Private] baker_pence October 17 2009, 15:45:27 UTC

Your every line of thought is leading to love! We've only been together a couple weeks! It's too soon to even think about that!

That and other things! Like, when we're kissing, where am I supposed to put my hands? Silly things like that that I've had absolutely no experience with!

Everyone keeps telling me to just follow my instinct and that I'll know, but this isn't all about me. Namine, she's been through a lot, I just don't want to push her... guess I just have to give it time, huh?

Don't worry, I know who you are! Namine has mentioned you and Fran a few times... good things though, don't worry! I'm Pence! Though I'm sure you've already figured that one out!

[Private] cardsstarsdice October 17 2009, 17:09:41 UTC

It is hard to believe sometimes, Pence. I've been in quite a few relationships over my years, and I still find myself in adoration that someone like her can love someone such as I.

I was raised to be a gentleman, and the advice I was given is to let her decide. You will know when she wants to move forward by the way she looks at you, or how she acts around you, or she might be as forward as to come right out and say it. If you're both shy towards matters like this, it can help to just ask sometimes, but never be forceful in the slightest about it.
There is no specific time span for advancement, just move forward whenever you're both ready. Miss Aeris and I have been dating for nearly five months, and we've taken it at her pace for the duration. I think it allows me more time to savour what I do have and how fortunate I am to have someone such as her, as in comparison to a few relationships in my past.