Too tired for a proper subject!
I do apologize for the lack of updates lately! Unfortunately, I've been under the weather and cooped up in my bedroom at home. Thankfully it wasn't the sickness that's going around the campus, I was stuck with a cold. At least those disappear quite quickly
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I'll take it upon myself to explain. Oh, and I'm Axel. The next door neighbor of the Roxas you speak of, though never personally met him. Got it memorized?
I'll attempt my best to give advice. Though it really depends on what exactly you want to know. If it's how to approach when doing certain actions, go with the flow. If she's enjoying what you guys are doing, you'll know. If she's not, you'll also know. You can always tell, trust me. If she's the innocent kind, don't pressure or force anything. Take it slow. If she's not minding what you are doing presently, take it a step further from time to time. Usually, if a girl is feeling uncomfortable by then, she'll either stop you (words or not), or stop the movements herself naturally and switch to doing something else (like talking, etc.). Or lower the affection. Meaning, she'll probably give a kiss or two more, or touch your face, but won't go the other level again. It all really depends on personality.
You don't have to worry much, however. If she hasn't said anything concerning that to you, you're not doing anything wrong. Never be nervous to talk to her if it's needed if you don't know what's correct to do. As I said, the best thing is to go with the flow. It's instinct.
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Random love advice from a stranger, something I never thought I'd ask for. Thanks though, Axel! I'm Pence and Roxas and I have been friends for a while, I just haven't seen him lately.
Thanks for all of the advice! Looks like there's no clear answer on what to do huh? Just have to trust the instincts of someone that's never had a girlfriend before. At least she's sweet and forgiving if I do anything wrong!
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Well, then, I guess we're not strangers anymore. I think I came too forward. Nice to meet you.
And it doesn't matter whether you never had a girlfriend before. Many people don't at first, right? That's why you learn by experience. Just take in that you'll know when she doesn't want to go beyond: in movements, body language. Take it slow, and take it easy, progress step by step. That's all you need to keep in mind.If she's sweet and forgiving as you say, then there's definitely no reason to fret at all. She'll understand that you didn't mean passing the boundaries. You'll be alright.
Now if you want to know about what you should be doing when in the moment, that's another subject. I repeat, instinct. When you're into it, your body will automatically touch what you feel like touching (unless you're shy). You're unconsciously aware of what makes a woman's body. I would recommend keeping and tracing your hands around her legs, thighs, back, or waist. Then if you feel you can approach more to the "rest", for lack of a better word, don't go quickly. Take your time easing it. If she doesn't do any of the things that were explained in my past reply, then that's a green to keep going further and a bit more further. As I said, she'll stop you in some way that you'll get even if it isn't as obvious. That's when you don't push.
My first girlfriend was just like yours. The innocent, sweet, kind type, right? I went through the same thing. You will make it through unscathed.
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