I'm Not Sure?

[frozen_maeum]

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[joshie86star]

I dont have any advice..But my ex girlfriend, has a girlfriend now after years of chasing boys..She had a best friend and they were inseperable, and I hadnt talked to her in like a year. She randomly texted me and I asked her if she was still friends with the girl and she was like we're together now, but Im not like a lesbian or anything because Im only attracted to her. Your story reminded me of her. :D

[chamcha]

advice about what?

[frozen_maeum]

I guess I did make it a bit confusing; I guess more of what I want is insight. Like if I'm getting in over my head, or if I should tell my parents and hope for the best, or... I dunno, haha.

[chamcha]

i know you may feel like you two have something really great, and yeah, you might. but you're really young. all i can say is don't lose sight of what you want from life, outside of this boy. it may be hard to believe, but he's just a boy, and there are many more out there. i made some big mistakes in the name of love and now i'm stuck cleaning up the pieces. that doesn't mean leave him, of course. that means just don't get in too deep.

also don't do anything or plan to do anything you wouldn't be proud to tell people you trust.

[frozen_maeum]

Yeah, that's why I'm hesitant on telling them. right now I'm proud to call him mine, I really care for him. with all romanticism put aside, he's my very best friend. I mean I've got other close friends, my life doesn't revolve ALL around him. but he's part of my life right now, living it with me, but I don't want to ruin a relationship with my parents or family because of something that might not be forever. even if we say we want to be together forever, of course we can't ensure that right now. so.. I just don't know what I should do. I feel like I'm keeping him a "secret" and I'm so content with him that I don't want to. but I don't want to get too obsessed.

[artkouros]

I think you have enough to handle eight now without telling your parents. You can tell them later - when you're between relationships. With summer coming up, I'd just write all this down and maybe later you can sell it to LOGO.

[beyondfake_0]

You both could be bisexual.

[evil_admiral]

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[ninoq]

Hm. For someone who loves writing you're not very good at it.

[frozen_maeum]

Um? This wasn't even an attempt at writing well. I thought this was supposed to be a support community, not a bashing community... Does it matter how well I write in something like this?

[ninoq]

I'm not bashing, just stating the obvious. Also, I'm not sure if advice is what you need. Situations like this, they're all so unique because so many factors play a role; it's very personal. And because of that, people will advice you from their - very personal - reference frame.
Just do what you feel is right, when you think the time is right. And that, my friend, is all I got for ya!

[frozen_maeum]

I guess I see where you're coming from, but I'm more of a fiction writer. Anyways, thanks for your input.