Comments | aurora_lamour: I'm back

aurora_lamour

I'm back

Feb 04, 2016 18:37

So much has changed. I was looking back at my journal and I joined here on 6/4/2004, my 32nd birthday. I am now 43, have been on here off and on - more off for the past few years, and my life is not what I wanted it to be ( Read more... )

disability, david, brianna

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evilgrins February 5 2016, 06:37:54 UTC

Sorry about your husband.

aurora_lamour February 13 2016, 00:56:25 UTC

He was my ex-husband but since we were co-parenting so closely it was still a severe blow. Thank you for your concern.

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aurora_lamour February 13 2016, 00:56:36 UTC

He was my ex-husband but since we were co-parenting so closely it was still a severe blow. Thank you for your concern.

collectonian February 19 2016, 05:41:44 UTC

*hugs*

So sorry for the loss of your ex-husband. Even though you were divorced, that you were co-parenting so well is certainly a sign you were able to remain on at least somewhat friendly terms and of course you had history together so your mourning is understandable.

Raspberriers at people throwing their unwanted 2 cents in on your living situation. As you said, you're doing what you and your husband feel is best for her, and it sounds like she is doing well. I know its hard to ignore them but hopefully you can tune them out for the most part. All that matters is what you and your family feel about it.

And welcome back :-)

aurora_lamour February 19 2016, 20:21:09 UTC

Thanks for your support. It is hard to ignore the "but you are her mom." I had one other mom say "but I thought you would want her now". It is so not about not wanting her. It is incredibly hard not to have her with me. But I have to think about her more than me. Why don't other parents understand that?