Comments | aunil_vol_2: tell me how does it feel like staying out in the rain?

aunil_vol_2

tell me how does it feel like staying out in the rain?

Jan 31, 2005 19:53

I just feel so vulnerable at times. Being so dependent on other people's mood is a pain in the butt ( Read more... )

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intootje January 31 2005, 21:27:45 UTC

Wow, a year in England, that sounds great! I keep my fingers crossed that you get to go.

aunil_vol_2 January 31 2005, 22:11:23 UTC

thank you:*
is everything alright over there?:)

birgitte January 31 2005, 21:42:26 UTC

It sounds like a good idea for you to get away from your mum for a while. After I got some distance between my parents and I our relationship has been much better.

aunil_vol_2 January 31 2005, 22:12:20 UTC

did it really get better?I'm happy for you and I hope it'll be the same for me as well:)

birgitte February 1 2005, 16:43:02 UTC

Definately. We used to fight all the time, I used to hate how they treated me like a little girl still, but after they saw how well I did on my own, they stopped doing that. Are you still living at home?

About your mother, I don't know how much this sadness is in her life, but my mother had a big depression last year, so I really know the feeling of not being able to help. I had to realize that even though I wanted to help it was not really my responsiblity, because it was her life and not mine, and that I would drain myself trying to drag her up on my own.

aunil_vol_2 February 2 2005, 09:23:39 UTC

> I wanted to help it was not really my responsiblity

I know this is right, but I'd feel guilty if I didn't do it. She's taken care of me for my whole life, so I feel as if I MUST take care of her now.Of course she's old enough to take care of her, she has all the means and intelligence to do it...I don't know, I'm confused.

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