Hi, I've been lurking for some time.

[fueschgast]

First: categories. I like categories, mostly. Because if you have categories you can just say its name and don't have to waste time and energy trying to explain things. And categories give you a place. It's nice to be part of something, but I tend to worry if I really belong in some categories. If I'm doing it right and stuff

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[lordalfredhenry]

Curiosity is a strong drive not to be discounted when it comes to sex. Every relationship/person is different which is why so many people seek out new partners. I myself have gone through periods of extreme asexuality and high libido. I think most of my asexuality was the result of hang-ups and supression from my upbringing. That said, it's easy to get over-zealous in exploring something and later regret it. It is challenging for men or women to figure out the right boundaries and what they want out of their intimate life. It's taken me years to figure it out.