Of friends and lovers

[tinuviel]

Where is for you the distinction between a lover and a friend? Where do you draw the line as to what belongs into a friendship and what belongs into a romantic relationship?

Comments

[hashishinahooka]

Um. I haven't the slightest idea. I think the boundaries would be fluid for me because there are few things I would do with a lover I wouldn't do with a friend.

Granted that my friend is male, I would have sex with a friend I found attractive or at least interesting enough to consider sex with. I think the difference between a friend and a lover for me is the intensity of feeling.

[view_from_here]

Pretty much sex and a lot more physical contact for me.

[cat_the_knife]

I have to ask myself two questions. Are we sexually attracted to one another? Are we acting on it (or intending to)? Pretty much anything else is "just friends" to me.