Lousy Weekend

[arienna]

I had a lousy personal weekend. I had a date with this awesome guy I was really excited about which went... really badly wrong. And not for me, for him. I messed it up. I feel so stupid. Then Sunday I got the news that I friend of mine died... and then I logged onto one of those stupid social sites and got the news that an ex of mine has a new

Comments

[danieltallon]

Your story really does go from bad to worse. You should do whatever you can to ease up on the demand put on you and cultivate the relations you have today. In other words: hang out with friends and have some fun - it really does make the pain more palatable.

[mumpfpuffel]

It's something I always feared and probably made true anyway - venting steam at my ex. The thing is that it doesn't really seem like you're just venting to you, you actually think it's a honest to god discussion about things they/you did wrong.

Only afterwards, there's a bit of realization..

[sasami]

The only things I can offer are virtual hugs and chocolate and someone to talk to.

It's easy to make suggestions about how to get the current state of affairs back in order but I don't think that would help. You're completely capable of straightening everything out but you seem to feel overwhelmed and that needs to be addressed first. And that goes back to hugs and chocolate and listening.

Also, "he majored in sociology and minored in social manipulation" is a great line.