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Apr 16, 2006 16:36

so last night was a crap night. Work was fine, I enjoyed it, and then dinner at my parents was great. I had a good time, and talked to my cousins a lot. Ryan came, and he looked all dressed up, and very nice. Afterwards though, we went to Brian and Kendra's. It was so fucking boring. No one could agree on anything to do. Kendra didn't want to play ( Read more... )

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elanor_rigby_ April 16 2006, 22:34:36 UTC

" I haven't lost weight" So? How does that affect the relationship? It shouldn't.

apossibility April 17 2006, 02:55:28 UTC

the only reason that it matters is that it is something that both of us have been trying to achieve. And I haven't been keeping up my side of it. It is something that is important to the two of us, so I want to lose weight. My problem is self-control. I don't have a whole lot.

livein_darkness April 17 2006, 02:54:01 UTC

I haven't started to keep my room clean
What's with this guy? I agree with the first comment. That shouldn't have any affect on the relationship at all!

apossibility April 17 2006, 02:57:59 UTC

see, these are things that we both need in a future marriage. It is about being in shape, not about being skinny, or hot. I am not in shape, and both of us want ot be in shape when we have kids eventually. I know it seems silly to other people, but to us it makes some sense. I mean, would you necessarily be attracted to someone who was overweight, and a total slob? It wouldn't be very attractive qualities in a mate now, would it?

livein_darkness April 17 2006, 03:01:22 UTC

Now now relax, we're all friends here. I see your point since you put it that way.
Didn't mean to upset you.

apossibility April 17 2006, 05:04:33 UTC

oh, I didn't mean to sound upset. I was just being defensive. I get a lot of slack sometimes about the determinates that Ryan and I put on our relationship, and I always have to defend the reasons. So yeah, I am not upset. =)

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electedofficial April 18 2006, 04:28:29 UTC

I really hate to say this, but I'm going to.... some of the stuff you mention in your posts about Ryan really bugs me. It reminds me of my old abusive controlling relationship. And trust me, I FULLY agree on having self control and being with a mate who's not a slob, hence my losing 30 pounds in the past month. And my boy is shaping up big time too. But when you don't have positive encouragement and re-enforcement it's tough ( ... )