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[apossibility]

so last night was a crap night. Work was fine, I enjoyed it, and then dinner at my parents was great. I had a good time, and talked to my cousins a lot. Ryan came, and he looked all dressed up, and very nice. Afterwards though, we went to Brian and Kendra's. It was so fucking boring. No one could agree on anything to do. Kendra didn't want to play

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[livein_darkness]

I haven't started to keep my room clean
What's with this guy? I agree with the first comment. That shouldn't have any affect on the relationship at all!

[apossibility]

see, these are things that we both need in a future marriage. It is about being in shape, not about being skinny, or hot. I am not in shape, and both of us want ot be in shape when we have kids eventually. I know it seems silly to other people, but to us it makes some sense. I mean, would you necessarily be attracted to someone who was overweight, and a total slob? It wouldn't be very attractive qualities in a mate now, would it?

[livein_darkness]

Now now relax, we're all friends here. I see your point since you put it that way.
Didn't mean to upset you.

[apossibility]

oh, I didn't mean to sound upset. I was just being defensive. I get a lot of slack sometimes about the determinates that Ryan and I put on our relationship, and I always have to defend the reasons. So yeah, I am not upset. =)

[livein_darkness]

That's good :D
And you have every right to be defensive in the name of your relationship!