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[angelcat4]

I don't even know where to start right now. I am an adult woman, but if anyone had overheard the conversation that I had with my husband this morning, they would have thought that he was speaking to a child. Why does he think that he can tell me how to spend my free time? He would like to plan my schedule around his wants and needs. I'm so sick of

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You're a perfectionist and overachiever, and want everyone to be happy...

[ennui_ha]

...sometimes at your expense.

I'm sorry that your husband was insensive about it. I've realised over the past 6 weeks that my fiance was going through issues when I was working (I quit my job 6 weeks ago), and couldn't figure out what he was doing with his time and why he wasn't getting his (#$% together. While I would never suggest role switching, it's easy to criticise when one hasn't been there.

Keep your head up--you have friends, and a support system!

Re: You're a perfectionist and overachiever, and want everyone to be happy...

[angelcat4]

Thanks so much! We are working on it. I appreciate your support:) Take care,

Angie