Apparently, I am forgiven

[anahata56]

Wallace actually came out from under the bed last night when dinner arrived, and in a fit of guilt, I shared a larger than normal portion of my cheese fries with him

Comments

[anigo]

When you have someone on your friends list who has someone on THEIR friends list who you don't get along with--like, at ALL--do you hesitate to comment in their journals in case the person you don't get along with should get all pissy? Not necessarily with you, but in general? Or with your friend?

Nope. I don't hesitate at all. But you know that from history ;)

[jynxgirl]

I'd say post. So long as you're not the one starting the drama, and you don't continue it, you're not to blame.

[saavik]

Speaking from personal experience *W.E.G.* I'm with those who say to post.

I think your friend will understand that if your friend's other friend causes a ruckus, it is not your doing. Furthermore, no reasonable friend would expect you to sit by passively if you are being abused.

Heh, who'd a' thunk I'd be giving advice on this issue; my posting history speaks for itself (sometimes unfortunately).

[griffen]

I will often try to suss out the friend's feelings on the matter, and abide by that as the rule for their journal. In my own journal, I have made the rule "don't fight with my friends," and made sure that people who have me on their flists know it. I expect people to behave themselves when interacting with other people I care about.

[ravensword]

As someone who has several friends and groups of friends on my list who don't necessarily like each other or get along, I'm definitely in the post category.

I think I've made it quite clear to all such folks that I don't need or expect everyone I call a friend to like everoyone else I call a friend, I only expect civility when in my space.