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[amberinside]

Wanna hear something pathetic

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[wyldekyttin]

Yes, but what if he had to go on without you?

Perhaps you should both work toward living as well and as long as possible-that's what I'm doing with Vlad.

[amberinside]

We're trying. I'm back on the Spark wagon as of yesterday and hopefully it'll take this time. I've been trying on and off for 3 years.

[platypusgirl]

I worry that I'll lose part of myself that helps to define who I am.

[amberinside]

I worry about that too.

I worry how I'll handle temptation if people suddently start hitting on me.

I worry that if I lose weight,I'll need a tummy tuck to look normal.

[platypusgirl]

I know - the last thing I need is suspenders to hold up my "second tummy" when all the fat is gone. What an attractive new look that will be!

Maybe I'll start a trend!

[renfairewench]

Forgive me if I am asking this inappropriately. Have you considered Weight Loss Surgery?

[amberinside]

I have considered it. I even planned to go to a meeting at the hospital about it, and backed out at the last minute.

The idea of being cut is very scary,and I've heard of several people who had the surgery and then, after they lost weight, they gained it all back.

What do you think? Didn't you have some trouble with your procedure?

[renfairewench]

Amber, I would be willing to give you the good, the bad and the ugly, but on the phone. My situation is much different and the issues I have had are not normal, but can happen. It's just too much to put down in a post and doesn't allow you to ask questions if you want. If you want, my email addy is steelodalisque at aol dot com. Let me know you want to talk and send me your phone number or I can PM you mine, whichever works for you. I'll give you all the info you need on weight loss surgeries, and if you want even my opionion about which one is likely to keep your lost weight off. Don't give up on it yet. It does work. You might want to consider joining Obesityhelp.com too, lots of info there and people to ask questions and get support.

Maddie