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am4z1ng

My Love Life?

Jul 27, 2005 14:22

This post is going to be sort of different from the others, in that usually where I have a life experience and talk about what I learned from it, this time I have no plant to show from the seed I stuck in the ground. I’m not saying I didn’t get anything from this experience, but I’m wondering where to go from here. Also, this entry is not based ( Read more... )

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In the same friggin boat spruiell July 27 2005, 19:09:58 UTC

This has become some kind of crazy trend. I comment first on your entries. I like setting the bar but I'm worried I might set it too high. Don't want that now do we ( ... )

castro4pres July 27 2005, 22:31:35 UTC

The longer you have someone of the opposite sex as a friend, the harder it is to change the relationship to a boyfriend-girlfriend one.. This means inevitably you have a better chance of forming a romantic relationship with someone you just met. What you are saying is that you are uncomfortable doing that, you want to get to know them better. Well I'm all for that, but just know that the longer you put off trying to form a relationship with a girl, for whatever the reason, the more SHE's going to think of YOU as a friend, and vice versa... This will probably become less true as we grow older (I hope). College and beyond .. cant wait

by the way
i'm a negative mood killer

yo anonymous July 28 2005, 03:08:14 UTC

niraj. u bastard. over-analyzing once again. its a good thing buddy. i gotta agree with the illegal cuban, u cant expect to make a relationship with sumone, that is really close to u like good friends. i personally dont even care if i go out with a girl or not. just like ur making it. its too much to worry about. not saying u shouldnt. i just dont and thats just me. oh yeah. and im straight also. u should keep friends with the girls u want to. but if u see sumone u really like or have a "crush" on. this is life man. live it. if it doesnt work. just remember that batman quote "we fall, so we can pick ourselves back up". man its all good if u get turned down who the hell cares really. and if u dont congrats. but u cant be safe all ur life and only have really good friends that r girls. then again, taking chances too much will cost you in the long run. u and i played poker together lol, and i remember, u being almost as conservative as me. u gotta take more risks. i was conservative, u were, we both lost in the end. Coleman, aseem, ( ... )

Re: yo kttheirishspaz July 28 2005, 23:56:07 UTC

i agree completely....

and i am straight as well, as it turns out....

but yea, i have the same thing goin on over here niraj, so you're not alone so...

rock on those without relationships and lots of friends!!
wootwoot!

<333katie

niraj! anonymous July 29 2005, 01:44:01 UTC

niraj, i can relate.

i always have had a ton of guy friends and very, very few boyfriends. i personally like to think its better that way. from my point of view, its never worth it to ruin a friendship.
we're in highschool. theres no need to have tons of boyfriends/girlfriends.

-katie
[sorry this is so short, haha]

Re: niraj! anonymous July 30 2005, 01:56:05 UTC

HOW IRONIC!!!!

Re: niraj! am4z1ng July 30 2005, 15:50:44 UTC

Short it was, but you said everything you needed to say. I agree with you that its never worth it to ruin a friendship. Friends are too important.

I love it when people do what they say they'll do :). Thanks for commenting!

-Niraj

i miss u niraj! anonymous July 29 2005, 15:26:45 UTC

niraj! first off i miss you A LOT!! ill call u soon =) also... i tend to actually get a long better with guys then girls, ive always had a lot of guy friends, and then maybe 3 or 4 really good friends that were girls... so i think that can make it harder to have friends of the opposite sex or whatever and allow yourself to have crushed and what-not, just because seeing how most realtionships like that work out in highschool after a lot of people date and breakup or whatever, they stop talking and are kind of back to zero, not even being friends... so if your not trying to lose friends and all it might be a good idea to play it safe and not try to persue those kinds of relationships with your friends of the oppsite sex.. but at the same time lifes about taking chances and you could be missing out on ALOT if you dont try to further relationships with people you feel are worth it ... and you never know, even after break-ups if your friendship was close and strong enough before you started going out or whatever then after time you might ( ... )