good luck to both of us. thankfully we've both got a great best friend for support (fernando)itsforthe__bestApril 21 2007, 02:01:24 UTC
aaron honestly are you in my brain or what?
its strange how you've been able to give words to the feelings i've been having so often lately but had trouble understanding and embracing. we're more alike then i would've thought, but then again we did always get along greatly in art class :)
i kept nodding my head in agreement to the first paragraph and then the second one really hit the spot.. especially "I should waste my conscience thinking on something that drives you a little less fuckin' crazy."
and lastly the part about it being a really big step for you... i completely feel you, because as you remember from my last really long entry, i want to stop thinking about upsetting things so much, but its been a hard habit to break. trying and trying again is all one can do though :)
Re: good luck to both of us. thankfully we've both got a great best friend for support (fernando)always_climbingApril 21 2007, 05:17:56 UTC
Yeah...I'm really glad you understand. At least somebody does.
I also spend a little too much time thinking about upsetting things. It wouldn't be a hard habit to break...if people weren't constantly judging and criticizing me. People, especially our friends, don't seem to understand that constantly telling people what they do is wrong only worsens things like insecurity and the feeling of inferiority.
Especially when they don't look at their own problems. That's one of the biggest reasons people like you and me need to stop worrying about what others think, because every else is just as fucked up as we are.
Re: good luck to both of us. thankfully we've both got a great best friend for support (fernando)always_climbingApril 21 2007, 16:48:48 UTC
I know, and I've realized that. I now will believe if there is a reason to; I admit, I'm stubborn sometimes. But a lot of the arguments some of you guys have are stupid. And some are smart, we just both need to able to tell the difference.
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its strange how you've been able to give words to the feelings i've been having so often lately but had trouble understanding and embracing. we're more alike then i would've thought, but then again we did always get along greatly in art class :)
i kept nodding my head in agreement to the first paragraph
and then the second one really hit the spot.. especially "I should waste my conscience thinking on something that drives you a little less fuckin' crazy."
and lastly the part about it being a really big step for you... i completely feel you, because as you remember from my last really long entry, i want to stop thinking about upsetting things so much, but its been a hard habit to break. trying and trying again is all one can do though :)
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I also spend a little too much time thinking about upsetting things. It wouldn't be a hard habit to break...if people weren't constantly judging and criticizing me. People, especially our friends, don't seem to understand that constantly telling people what they do is wrong only worsens things like insecurity and the feeling of inferiority.
Especially when they don't look at their own problems. That's one of the biggest reasons people like you and me need to stop worrying about what others think, because every else is just as fucked up as we are.
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