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it's been a long time
i miss the long conversations that used to happen here. c'est la vie ( Read more... ) -
#metoo & #meat14 triggerwarning: sexual abuse, assault
let's talk about sexual assault, sexual abuse and all the shit that's all over the news right now, particularly the hashtags #metoo and #meat14 ( Read more... ) -
wasteland
wasteland weekend in disjointed thoughts... first and most important: that was well worth my energy and pain, i had a fantastic time. thanks to everyone who made it possible, especially luke for getting me out there ( Read more... ) -
'Unnatural' hair colors without bleach
Since I wrote this up for a friend, I thought I'd post it here. This is not how a hair professional would recommend doing this, and may not work for everyone, but it worked for me. My hair was dark, almost black brown before this process and I'd get vibrant dark red, purple and/or blue when I was done. FYI, I almost always used Special Effects ( Read more... ) -
stop blindsiding your friends - it's fucking triggering
fucking fuck. flight or fight response triggered again. this needs to stop so ( Read more... ) -
44 (45) questions
ashbet posted this and it seems like a good way to spend a little time ( Read more... ) -
international fibrmyalgia awareness day
since today is fibro day, here's the latest on my ongoing lack of cope, how fibromyalgia has impacted me personally, and both the good and bad in my life in spite of this asshole of an illness.
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raid my closet and custom clothing - sales roundup:
custom clothing, kilts, costumes & cosplay - 25% off! (sale extended as i'm still struggling to catch up and have been turned down again for my much needed medication ( Read more... )