You are not being sensitive. Sometimes what people say oh-so-casually hurts a damn lot. So, you're non-confrontational and like to help people -- that does not give anybody the right to say hurtful things about you. Never.
Also, you are not a boring person. You're responsible and helpful, and sure, you don't like to go do crazy things, but that does not make you boring. For instance: Hello, Layer Cake? I still crack up thinking about the various comments (*coughs* catcalls) we made while watching Daniel Craig's lovely and bare upper torso all by ourselves. I think we're all just interesting in our own little ways. I think you have a great head on your shoulders, and you have a cool sense of humor, and you don't mind it when I get slightly obsessive and compulsive, which is actually quite the amazing feat. Remember, you're my long-lost twin
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Aw Erika..thank you so so much. That really means a lot to me, and it made me emotional and smiley at the same time *thinks about Daniel Craig*. I'm so glad to have someone like you to set me straight when it feels like no one else relates to me. *hugs* You're the best, my long lost twin!
Aw, Alyssa, I hope things will get better for you. Being in a new circle of people is hard to adjust, especially in sorority. I wish I was there to comfort you *hugs* Just hang in there and even though everything seems like hell right now, it'll be worth it in the end. (haha, so cliche) xD Miss you lots!
Thanks Shereen, I'm lucky to have friends like you to back me up and bring me to my senses. Miss you much..I WILL be seeing you soon, school isn't going on that much longer for me. luv ya *hugs*
Personally, I think you should be a little bit of a bitch to them and get confrontational, tell then how you feel about everything. Even though you are in a soririty (evil evil!!!) you should let your opinions known to others. If you stay quiet it'll probably just get worse.
BTW, nobody can be more boring than me! I do something social like.. once a month..... but at least the people I hang out with are nerdy gamers like me =x!
Aw, thanks for your support and strong advice Laur, even if it's about the evil sorority. =P And hey now, I LIKE hanging out with nerd gamers..at least I'm easily comfortable around them. Unless they're way more comp nerdy than me, then I'm just like uhhhh..yeah I have no idea what you're talking about.
I really agree with Laura about being open with your opinions. You know Alyssa, you are one of the most amazing women I know. When I was in 8th grade, I always thought of you as the perfect version of me. ... Well ... know that I know myself a lot better (and I'd like to think I know you a bit better), I know we're very different, but you are wonderful and friendly, kind and sweet. You know though, what I admired the most about you in 8th grade was your confidence. I think that if you worry less about others or trying to be nice or to help others and more about just being yourself, things would be easier. People need to earn your kindness through trust. Don't second guess yourself because of anyone. Besides, people believe appearances. If you think you are the hottest and most amazing chick around, other girls will too. If people don't respect you for who you are, they will once they really get to know you. =D We've had a lot of fun times, and you are incredibly fun. Remember Scott's party we went to? You may not go crazy
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Also, you are not a boring person. You're responsible and helpful, and sure, you don't like to go do crazy things, but that does not make you boring. For instance: Hello, Layer Cake? I still crack up thinking about the various comments (*coughs* catcalls) we made while watching Daniel Craig's lovely and bare upper torso all by ourselves. I think we're all just interesting in our own little ways. I think you have a great head on your shoulders, and you have a cool sense of humor, and you don't mind it when I get slightly obsessive and compulsive, which is actually quite the amazing feat. Remember, you're my long-lost twin ( ... )
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And you're just that awesome and great!
I hope everything is better~!
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Personally, I think you should be a little bit of a bitch to them and get confrontational, tell then how you feel about everything. Even though you are in a soririty (evil evil!!!) you should let your opinions known to others. If you stay quiet it'll probably just get worse.
BTW, nobody can be more boring than me! I do something social like.. once a month..... but at least the people I hang out with are nerdy gamers like me =x!
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And hey now, I LIKE hanging out with nerd gamers..at least I'm easily comfortable around them. Unless they're way more comp nerdy than me, then I'm just like uhhhh..yeah I have no idea what you're talking about.
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