So, went to the doctor's yesterday...

[akashathekitty]

... and, yes, I'm still pregnant.

Yesterday, I was at 7 + 1. I knew that (because I has math and the internet) but that's also what they said with their math and a cardboard wheel

Comments

[mazvn]

:( It should be a good thing that you are pregnant, not the cause of pain and stupid ass job-center giving you stress.

I'll come with you and explain it to them.

I. I am really sorry about the BA not getting made :( I hate myself for not doing it, and even more because it cause you stress. I want Happy Kitty.

You, you have nothing to feel guilty for at all. NOTHING. We just got a big money present. I earn some more money. The jobcenter cant' force you back to work as the doctor is on our side, and they cant' really go against her advice. It's just a routine chekcup, probably because some rule somewhere say they have to do them every X month.

Don't Panic :)

[akashathekitty]

IDK if the doc is on our side. She did say one time, before the pregnancy, that I couldn't expect to be on sick leave forever. Giving me the impression that she felt like I should totes be getting cured by the pills and was merely milking it or something.

Course, she may be on our side now that I'm not on any meds, but we don't really know that.

Told you that the whole beating on yourself for not doing it is useless. Would be more useful if you spent that energy doing it.

Job center has actually been cutting me a lot of slack, everything considering. I think they left me alone three months. It's just... bad timing, because I have all these hormones right now and my system isn't quite dealing with being off the pills yet etc. It makes it bad. I'm completely in the red right now. Like, seriously. My stomach hurts, I feel like vomiting, and I suspect falling asleep tonight will be difficult. :/ The next week I probably won't be able to be productive in any way.

[mazvn]

:(
At least most of next weak we will have company. That's a good thing, because then I get all productive and someone else can play with Kupo.

Then you can hide in the bed ,watch TV, play computer, whatever you need to feel relaxed. ... I'll bake you cookies if that helps! :)

[akashathekitty]

You do realise how incredibly passive I am whenever your family is around, right?

[alina290]

It seems that sometimes or now a days we talk more or type more to our partners in the net. I guess technology changes us and the way we communicate. Akasha you are an amazing woman, mother, wife, and friend. All will be fine with you and your little Blueberry. That reminded me of a fic where Hermione was pregnant and she was so very happy and they both called the fetus; blueberry.

You needed your meds, sometimes even if you are trying to conceive you need your meds to cope with daily life. I know that for a fact. I take pain medication on a daily basis and there are times I didn't cause one of them causes gastritis. No fun at all.

One thing you are not alone, you have a husband who is there for you and many fanfiction fans who care you.

I send you all my good thoughts and chin up my Kitty.

Liz

[akashathekitty]

Meh. Sometimes writing makes it easier to get through to him.

Haha, blueberry is a decent nickname. It goes well with the other name I'd thought of - smurf. ;)

I know I'm not alone. :) And I'm happy that I'm not. *huggles* Thank you.

[snowe]

Yay still pregnant! Hang in there, little embryo! :D

Can you have any other meds while you are pregnant? I asked the husband about this once and he said that a lot of antidepressants are quite safe for pregnancy. I hate to think of you getting unnecessarily stressed out. I hope the unemployment meeting isn't too bad.

[akashathekitty]

I'm not taking any meds, because it's recently come to light that a lot of "safe" meds actually aren't safe but doctors have been misinformed by "experts" accepting money from the med companies and it has actually resulted in dead babies.

Fluoxetine used to be considered safe, for instance.

So with all this conflicting info, I have no clue what the fuck I actually can take and so I'd rather take nothing.

[scarletladyy]

Glad you're still pregnant!

I'm really sorry your anxieties have flared up because of coming off the meds, and I hope the JobCentre leaves you alone after the appointment next week *hugs*

♥

[akashathekitty]

Thank you. :) *hugs*

[margotlefaye]

{{{{HUGS}}}} I"m sorry everything is so rough for you right now. Hope it gets better.