So, went to the doctor's yesterday...

[akashathekitty]

... and, yes, I'm still pregnant.

Yesterday, I was at 7 + 1. I knew that (because I has math and the internet) but that's also what they said with their math and a cardboard wheel

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[mazvn]

:( It should be a good thing that you are pregnant, not the cause of pain and stupid ass job-center giving you stress.

I'll come with you and explain it to them.

I. I am really sorry about the BA not getting made :( I hate myself for not doing it, and even more because it cause you stress. I want Happy Kitty.

You, you have nothing to feel guilty for at all. NOTHING. We just got a big money present. I earn some more money. The jobcenter cant' force you back to work as the doctor is on our side, and they cant' really go against her advice. It's just a routine chekcup, probably because some rule somewhere say they have to do them every X month.

Don't Panic :)

[akashathekitty]

IDK if the doc is on our side. She did say one time, before the pregnancy, that I couldn't expect to be on sick leave forever. Giving me the impression that she felt like I should totes be getting cured by the pills and was merely milking it or something.

Course, she may be on our side now that I'm not on any meds, but we don't really know that.

Told you that the whole beating on yourself for not doing it is useless. Would be more useful if you spent that energy doing it.

Job center has actually been cutting me a lot of slack, everything considering. I think they left me alone three months. It's just... bad timing, because I have all these hormones right now and my system isn't quite dealing with being off the pills yet etc. It makes it bad. I'm completely in the red right now. Like, seriously. My stomach hurts, I feel like vomiting, and I suspect falling asleep tonight will be difficult. :/ The next week I probably won't be able to be productive in any way.

[mazvn]

:(
At least most of next weak we will have company. That's a good thing, because then I get all productive and someone else can play with Kupo.

Then you can hide in the bed ,watch TV, play computer, whatever you need to feel relaxed. ... I'll bake you cookies if that helps! :)

[akashathekitty]

You do realise how incredibly passive I am whenever your family is around, right?

[mazvn]

I'll explain it to my brother. We could even tell him about the blueberry. If you want? Now that we have been to the doctor. You could also tell your mom?

They know you have not been feeling well, they don't judge. If that is what you fear.

[akashathekitty]

Meh, no. What with the meds potentially fucking up the embryo already, I'd rather wait until after the 12 week ultrasound.

You do realize that if Visible Bad Stuff has occurred I'm gonna terminate, right? IDK how our families would feel about that.

I should've gone off the meds sooner.

[mazvn]

I know, and I support your decision.

I pretty sure our families would agree, both yours and mine. But yea, I'm all for waiting.